hi i am married i have 6 yrs kid. And we are a hindu family , but my wife changed to some other religious ...with out knowing me...i will tried to conviceing her ....but she is very adament...but i have not very much intrested in that religious.....can any one help me what can i do now.......
2006-06-26 00:43:57 · 20 answers · asked by esswar j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nothing!!speak to her calmly and now respect her decision.She also must have taken this decision.
2006-06-26 00:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by lookatumiss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, she's just trying to find herself. Perhaps there's something missing in her life. Besides, it's not just about you. (Sometimes we get comfortable in a relationship and "assume" the other person is content too) Keep communication open. Forget about programmed traditions. Hey, why not grow with her? Show her that you love her by giving her support. You are a "team", remember? The alternative would simply mean that eventually you two will grow apart and move on. Is this what you want?
2006-06-26 07:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has the right not to tell you about some things in your life, but religion can be a very personal and serious matter to many people, maybe your wife felt "trapped" or "pressured" in her religion and wanted to change to something that was less pressuring towards her stability? or maybe there was another reason to why youir wife would do this, that perhaps, you can think of?
sorry that all i can think of, hope you find some luck. xx
2006-06-26 07:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by $@Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what religion she has converted herself too.
If she was forced into it or it was her choice.
Dont worry much about it as long as it does not interfere in your day to day routine. If she is bound to come back she will be back.
Converting to religion should not make impact in yuor lives.
Try to reason out or find how she got involved in the religion..you might find a path that will change.
2006-06-26 07:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her right to choose. You can't force someone to believe. Anyway, if you are being bad or being over forceful on her for it then it says something very negative about your faith.
Why should because you have no interests in her spiritual beliefs that she has to be forced to go along with yours?
Maybe you make her go to your religion don't mean she will believe it so it will be meaningless anyway.
2006-06-26 07:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...what type of religion? Have you attempted to find out more about it? Have you considered it may be a good thing for you and your family? I'm not being sarcastic, I'm speaking from experience. Keep us updated.
2006-06-26 07:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by idgie_64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that honesty is the best policy so having said that I think that you should talk to your wife and let her know how you feel and maybe things will work out from there.
2006-06-26 07:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by linda t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant force people to have the same beliefs as you and if you try then thats immoral. She has the right to choose any religion she desires.
Chris - I hope for her sake it IS Scientology!
2006-06-26 07:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by foxtel_iq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion is a personal choice. Not only that, she has given you the opportunity to learn about a new religion. Count your blessings!
2006-06-26 07:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by banker lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she joined up with a cult, don't fight with her about this. Religion is a topic people will always debate. Sorry but hinduism did nothing for her.
2006-06-26 07:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love her...I trust that there are views each of you hold which the other does not agree with. I guess how spiritual each of you are, will now come to test. You do not have to see things the same to love one another. You different views could offer yet another dimension to your marriage. I would challenge you to prey to your GOD to accept her for who she is, not what she believes. It is my belief that we are often challenged to grow in our faith/beliefs/spirituality.....
2006-06-26 08:01:39 · answer #11 · answered by mikendaberry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋