it takes me a while b4 i can reali enjoy it n b4 i know it he has cummed, he does carry on having sex n *** another 2-3 times, is der nefin im doin wrong, is der sumfin i can do 2 help him, so we bth enjoy it at da same time, not him at first den we bth do,
2006-06-26 00:41:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
ask your bf to concentrate on you for a while first doing things you like and when you feel you are getting close enough allow him to start his thing and then both of you go for it good luck lol sunshine
2006-06-26 00:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably so excited he cant help it, why not give him a hand job a hour or so before you want sex that should help also when you think he is about to *** stop and squeeze the very base of his penis this is supposed to stop him cumming so i have been told, but first of all get him to spend more time on foreplay so that you are satisfied before he has finished.
2006-06-26 00:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by sister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many ways to solve the problem:-
A)Using condoms. Some condoms are especially designed to desensitize, which leads to longer erections.
B)As the previous person suggested, different variants of sex (oral sex, foreplay) can lead to orgasm without ejaculation.
C)There are some exercises that allow men to control their ejaculation to a point (please note, this has not been proven, however, give it a try, it might work).
D)It generally is harder to reach a second ejaculation than a first, so you could simply wait for the second time around. ;)
2006-06-26 00:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Blackdemon2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap, how about learning English first?
Anyway, practicing lots of foreplay can help you be more aroused and closer to orgasm before you begin intercourse. If he gives you oral sex until you are close to climax, then starts intercourse, you might be able to reach orgasm this way.
Supposedly, there are ways in Tantric sex for the man to delay climax. Maybe your boyfriend can look into this.
2006-06-26 00:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he should pull out and wait a few seconds (while playing with you) His sensitivity will go down and you have sex again the same way. Touch yourself not him he needs to relax before he reinserts and you need to keep up with masturbation so you are closer to ejaculation. (check mate) Have Fun!!!!
2006-06-26 00:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to jerk off an hour or so before having sex & then he won't be as horny & viz a' viz, it will take longer for him to ejaculate!!!
That's what I used to do when I was young....
Now i'm a 25 year old sexual tyrannosaurus!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-27 01:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Alonso14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but if you actually spoke to him in a literate way..he may know what the hell ur on about! cos i don't!
2006-06-26 00:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by canada grl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no what you mean, there is nothing you can do i wish der was lol
2006-06-26 21:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by wetnslippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god,which school did you go to?
2006-06-26 01:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by Julie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, I know what u should do........... leave em
2006-06-26 00:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anthony M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋