My bf and I are having major problems,he doesnt have sex with anymore because he says everytime we have sex his penis gets red like in a rash and it causes him lots of pain for days afterwards.I've never been one to be promiscuis but just to make sure I got tested twice for every std test available and they all came back negative.It used to be where if he wore a condom than that helped but now he says even if he wears one he still gets it and thats where I having trouble believing him.He makes me feel so bad when he says hes never had this problem with his past girlfriends.He makes it out like this is all my fault. He wont c a doctor.We use to have a great sex life at first and he never complained then.I love him so much weve been together almost 2 years and share a 3 month old baby daughter . I dont know how he expects me to go without having any sex,this comes at a akward time because Ive hit a sexual peak, Im an understanding person but Im runing out of patience . Any advice???
2006-06-26 00:34:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hello dear!
Well, it seems like you fit very well together! I suppose that talking will solve most problems! If he needs some time to "relax", offer it to him! He might have reached some point that he needs your support! Well, you could ask, who would support you! Well, as a woman you are strong and capable, thus, make the first step and he will appreciate your dynamic character, especially if you never mention it!
2006-06-26 00:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by soubassakis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe and just maybe he is having an affair. If you have a baby together then I'd honestly give it some serious effort to work things out. But if you can get him to have sex and when he gets this rash tell him you want to have a look at it. Also, maybe it is some kind of reaction to something you are using. You know something that women use in their lower body to keep everything clean and smelling nice. And no, I'm not trying to be a wise guy here. I'm only offering suggestions.
2006-06-26 07:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont know what your guys like but, i'm like you here, i'm not sure whether to believe your boyfriend neither but within reason.
He probably is too embarressed talking about his genital area and he is maybe finding it hard to tell you if he does have a problem - if this is the case, talk to him, comfort him and say something like "its nothing to be ashamed of...it can happen to alot of people" etc. like that sort of thing.
Or...
You can ask your local GP and/or health clinic about this and they may be able to run through a list of ways and examples etc. with your problem concerning your BF.
thats all i can think of, soz. hope you find an answer!
2006-06-26 07:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by $@Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may not be you with the std, it may be him. have him get tested. also, try convincing him to see a doctor, there may be something more serious going on. i would also reevaluate your relationship with him. blaming you for his problems? maybe he's not as great as you thought.
2006-06-26 07:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by xdarklordx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and do someone else
2006-06-26 07:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋