2006-06-25 22:34:53 · 14 answers · asked by CharmingBoy 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Hi Mehul
Well, it is a good qustion and I hope that it will be enough for you and ur wife.
It is important in the first night to make ur wife comfortable and to explain to her that doing sex is a normal thing and all people doing it, and it is not harmful for her by any way and if she doesn't like to do sex at a moment u can delay it to a next time.
In addition, any woman likes to see a gentle and nice behavior from her husband. So I advice u to do the following:
1) Start speaking with sweaty words like (u're so beautiful, u've a moon face etc...).
2) Continue speaking till she feels well and her shiness dissolves, then touch her hands smoothly, hold it, raise it, then kiss it.
3) Now take a look at her face and show her a lovely smile.
4) Then u can hold her hand again and start kissing her from her hand up to her shoulder, end it with a gentle kiss from the back of her neck.
If u see that this answer is suitable for u, tell me for further completion.
Good Luck
2006-06-25 23:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by Muhammad F 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
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What to do in First Night with wife...? Is it necessary to do sex in First Night or not...?
2015-08-16 08:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a myth that you should do sex in the first night. You both should know each other and explore the body. Your wife is very nervous at this time so support her and don't have forcible sex which either of you will not enjoy. Enjoy the evening and night romantically. Explore each others body and relax and enjoy.
2006-06-25 22:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by tres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're suffering from performance anxiety. The days leading up to a wedding are often stressful.
Wedding days themselves are usually long and tiring . they start very early and end very late. Add to that the effects of food and drink and the result is that you often wind up with two tired people. So relax-you're going to be sleeping with this woman for the rest of your life. You don't have to show her everything you know on the first night..
If it's OK with her (she may have other plans) that on the first night you do a lot of holding and kissing ,go to sleep in each others arms. wake up the next morning- order room service breakfast - finish breakfast, stick a do not disturb sign on your door and two days later take it off..
2006-06-25 23:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
on the first night with wife you two can talk it not a compulsuion to have sex on first night itself
2006-06-25 22:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by dolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's unnecessary, especially if she was not ready to that, like in the case of the first time having a sex.
Remember: sex is great when both of you are enjoying it.
2006-06-25 22:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by egymah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is definitely not necessary to have sex on the first night, but keep in mind, she probably wants it as bad as you. Like other answers, she is wanting all the romance because she has in her mind how the whole day is supposed to go. Don't rush it, tease her then please her. I guarantee you romance her, she is going to melt all over you.
2006-06-25 22:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by rhicks1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also concerned by the event.I would like to know whether it produces any negative effect if we don't seduce the lady at the first night?
2006-06-25 22:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sex is not important. But as said previously enjoy her body. do u know what i mean. Sex is just putting your penis into her vagina. Thats it. Dont do that. Instead I would recommend you to just lick her body and suck her breasts and nipples and as yours will erect, go to washroom and then masturbate. If she is desperate to have sex, then have it because penis erect due to a thought but it does not happen with a woman.
2006-06-25 23:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by Brabra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are extreme nervous you do not have to...it's not a written law that one must have sex the first night....just spend time and talk to each other..be comfortable ...holding , touching ....
2006-06-26 01:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋