I love sex so why have I never managed to achieve an orgasm?

Answer 1

First; there's a small percentage of women that are non-orgasmic.

Second; there are two types of orgasm - vaginal and clitoral.

Lastly; there's also a small percentage of women that don't even know what an orgasm is supposed to feel like.

If one type of orgasm isn't working for you - try the other.
Ultimately, it's up to you to discover your hot spot and share that knowledge with your partner. You can self-explore or contact a therapist for referrals.

Answer 2

Obviously, you are a female. If you were a guy asking this question, you would have something seriously wrong with you.

I'm a guy and have been around a bit. One girl I was with to this day has never had an orgasm through sex or otherwise with a guy... or girl in her case. But she masturbates every day and is able to get herself off every time.

I believe it is more than likely due to the fact that she feels relaxed when doing it herself rather than being with a guy.

Now have you been able to have any kind of orgasm, whether clitoral or vaginal even if masturbating? If so, then more than likely you just don't feel relaxed with someone regardless of how well you know them.

Answer 3

You may have and not even known it. Every woman experiences orgasm to a different degree, for some it is earth shattering and leaves you spent, for others it is just a mild feeling of release. Some women never achieve orgasm at all. As long as you're having fun thats all that matters.

Answer 4

I am presuming you are female ;)
It can take a long time for you to relax enough for your body to allow an orgasm. Have you tried mentally stimulating yourself before sex with a partner, and during?
When you are aware of tension or difficulties in reaching an orgasm half the problem has been resolved, now all you got to do is to discover how to feel aroused enough for your body to reward you with the ultimate release ;)
You can discover this alone with masturbation by exploring your own body, but so much more fun to get your partner to play and explore.
Sharing fantasies and acting them out is great foreplay and if there is more foreplay before penetration then you have more chance of reaching a orgasm.

Back again...
You should get him to tease you until you can't take anymore, it'll work ;).

Answer 5

u know people have sex to feel a sense of enjoyment ,so if you have never expirienced an orgasm this is a sighn that you are not enjoying yourself the way that you should as an individual.you must look deep into why you "love"sex,solve it and after al that you might find your orgasm.the other reason might be the position that you patner enters you,you should think about changing that

Answer 6

some women have a hard time with this...i think it's a combination of the mans performance is less than average, her being able to realax and things in the lower region are not ready to work yet.
i'm thinking if you buy some toys and experiment to find your hot spots then you can explain this to your partner and hope you can achieve orgasm with them.

Answer 7

I sort of agree with LALO...but you obvously cant stop thinking:P

Are you comfy with your partner? Because I found that I never acheieved an orgasm until I was with one guy, and its because I was totally comfy to be who I am around him, so I didnt mind just letting it all out. If you have one little insecurty on youre mind while getting down and dirt, it can stop you from acheiving satisfaction. Dont clear your mind, just try to focus on the moment, and think about how sexy you look to him, and eventually things should fall in place.:)

Answer 8

u must b a girl , 1st do u mean by masterbation or with partner , if latter then ur sexual urge may be huge as compared 2 ur partner,and if yes ask him 4 a favor like dig in n lick * , if tht doesnt work , mail me

Answer 9

how can you love sex without having an orgasm.....you havent found the right guy yet.....

Answer 10

Having sex with the wrong person.