i am financially incapable to live with her after marriage. when i said this she also told that its better to get a stage in life frist and then go for such things.
guys and girls plz answer my question.
2006-06-25 21:49:32 · 9 answers · asked by gov 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi man if u r finacially weak tan u have taken a rite dicision coz after marring her u both would not b able to dream for anything wat abt ur children so u have taken a rite dicision
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Bye take care
2006-06-25 22:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Harshil K 1 · 9⤊ 2⤋
You need to ask a more detailed and clear question.
How old are you two. Do you have a job? What is a "stage in life"?
It's possible to marry poor, as long as you can get by, and grow and prosper together--
those make beautiful love stories.
But if marriage would impoverish either of you, that's a deal-killer. A certain minimum amount of solvency is needed before you can even think about marriage.
2006-06-25 22:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When 2 people really truely love eachother... they do NOT need much money to live. I can't imagine the curcumstances, where you would not be able to marry her and get a SMALL apartment... buy cheap food....and be VERY careful with money................ then as the years go by....... you will both be working together towards a better life.............. that is MUCH better then freaking LEAVING HER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY would you even THINK about leaving someone you LOVE..........becuz of MONEY ?????????????? When I was with my first love....... we in a one room apartment, eating only mac and cheese........ and we eventually.....years down the road......... we had a 4 bedroom home with an in-ground pool, eating lobster. PS. I'm not with him anymore, just to finish the story, but it was NOT because of money. So, do NOT let money get in the way of love...... or you will be sorry, I think.
2006-06-25 21:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is kinda krazy. You married her and now you can't and don't want to live with her? Our parent's lived with their better halves in hole's in the wall's or is it you guy's are discussing marriage? Don't do either you are maybe not ready.
2006-06-25 22:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, now you know the correct answer to that. Now let's see if you will be a real man and do the right thing.
2006-06-25 21:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the decisions taken by both of you are correct because we can't live by love alone we require money also. poverty kills people's good qualities. you can continue your love and once stabilised in life financially marry her. all the best
2006-06-26 07:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love a girl u will never leave her but if uhave done so she is not true love for u
2006-06-25 21:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by sexy rohan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she loves you back money is no big deal...
if she loves you and you still leave her then you will be the loser..
you would have lost someone who loves you deeply
2006-06-25 21:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by rekha c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont leave people u love.
2006-06-26 00:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋