i think my girlfriend is pregent and im 15 and shes 14a nd my dad said if i ever get a girl pregnet he will kick me out the house and my girl friend mom said she will support her if she ever got pregnet and i dont kno if her mom will let me move in so i can be wit my girl and help support her and if shes pregnet my baby and hers wat do i do?????? any suggetions????
2006-06-25 21:40:38 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
face it and be responsible
2006-06-25 21:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, first of all if you aren't ready to be a parent then you shouldn't be having sex. 14 and 15 are way to young. I can't speak against you too much because I was 17 when I got pregnant with my son. Let me tell you..it's tough. At least I was just finished with high school though. But I worked, went to college, took care of a baby and an appt alone while my b/f (now husband) joined the air force and was gone for a while. I had a lot of family support but it was tough. Give your dad a chance. He might not react the way you think. Also, talk to her mother...sometimes parents will suprise you. If she isn't pregnant I suggest you stop having sex. Or, she goes on some serious birth control and you use condoms.
2006-06-26 02:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by ktpb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is pregnant, tell your parents, try to get a GED, go to community college and then a real college and work at the same time or join the military and go to school during your time there. Whatever you do stay in school and tell her to stay in school too since her mother is willing to help. If she is not, then stop having sex because you have no business doing it at 15 and 14 years old. Take this as a learning experience. You two are not able to support a child financially, and most likely you are not mature enough to raise a child since you're not finished being raised yourselves. But don't be too hard on yourself. Everyone makes mistakes and this is just one of the many you will make down the road. Just learn from it.
2006-06-25 22:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by kutieface90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if it turns out she's not pregnant, learn from your close call.
If she IS pregnant, give your dad a chance first. Then her mom.
Either way, stay in school until you finish college. If you can't afford college, finish high school and join the military. Work on your education DURING and after your time in service.
DON'T buy a fancy car.
DON'T buy a big-screen TV or a sound system.
DON'T blow your money on drugs or alcohol.
DON'T cheat on your girlfriend.
DON'T get her pregnant again until you are AT LEAST 25 years old.
Keep your entertainment simple - go to the park, go for a walk, go bike riding - enjoy the good things in life - enjoy your wife and child.
Only spend your money on the essentials: Food, housing, health, clothing. If you're going to splurge, keep it below 5% of your budget.
It's not going to be easy. In fact, nowhere near it. But if people in 3rd world countries can get it done, you can, too.
2006-06-25 21:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by scavenger_meat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is that? Young people think they know everything better and do what comes to their mind first, later come with questions when it is too late. First: make a test to know it! If she's not be careful next time, if she is try to speak to her mother first. If you could be a man in the bed stories now is the time to talk like adults do, tell her you're not a boy for bedding only, you're interested in a real life sharing with your girlfriend. Girl friend will feel better having your support and not left alone in this difficult moment and mother won't advice to her daughter abortion seeing you both responsible and stand chance to take seriously your responsibilities. Your father won't resist too long maybe even told you so to avoid problems by scaring you for making stupid errors but probably won't act as he promised. Good luck.
2006-06-26 10:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Margaret golden girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As scary as it is, this is a wonderful situation. You and your girlfriend are bringing a new life into the world. It's great you want to support your girlfriend and I think you can be a fantastic dad. Tell your girlfriend's mom how you feel, that you want to stand by her, and see if she can help. Just remember, having a baby doesn't ruin your life - it's the beginning of something wonderful that will give your life real meaning. Be brave - your baby needs you!
2006-06-25 22:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by mishmush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i give Ur father a big round of applause because he got the idea right.. you want to ACT like a man then go find yourself somewhere to live. Why the hell are u having un protected sex in the first place..And her mother saying that to her made it worse! that lady will probably take you in and support all 3 of u so don't worry u can make as many babies as you want because her momma will be there to carry the load.
2006-06-25 22:06:11 · answer #7 · answered by ~Mrs.C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first i think you should see if she is pregnant for sure before tellen your dad or her mom if she then see if you can move in wit her and tellen her mom why and im sure she will let you move in. dont listen to these people would rude comments and saying you gf is hoe and slut and all that kind of stuff because she isnt and you sound like you'll be a good father but i hope you guess have money and stuff to buy things and take care of the baby.
good luck!
2006-06-26 12:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U idiot! U have the time to post in yahoo but can't buy a condom or take time to think what consequences u r putting her life into???
Had to get that off my chest. aint the first time someone screwed. Boy u have no idea what u r talking about. Get a hold of yourself. Talk to ur folks, even better if u can catch a counselor or help group. U r wasting time kid. Move!
2006-06-25 21:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should of done has waved bye-bye to you when she got pregnant. But seriously, make sure that she is pregnant first, from a doctor. If she is, the health clinic has many opportunities to help the baby when he or she is do. Best of Luck!
2006-06-25 21:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by Scottie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can not talk to your mom talk to your girl friends mom. it is very sad that you were experimenting at such a young age but if she is pregnant it is good you wish to support her. your parents may come round but wait untill you are sure to say any thing to them. help her talk to her perants if neccesery. I whosh you both the best it will change your lives having a baby may God bless you . I would not whish it on any one but many pregnancys do miscary so do not rush to tell your perants.
2006-06-25 21:46:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋