i left my wife for another woman, she won me back, but then we didnt work at it when i moved back in. She threw me out but after a few months were getting on great with plans for a weekend away when she hit me with "I love someone else".
She now wont have anything to do with me and her new man has got his feet right under my table.
She says its not revenge and that she loves him - they have loads in common - he is older - we have been together 22 years.
2006-06-25 21:13:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Karma.
2006-06-25 21:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/ZRaF1
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-18 16:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy: Is this the same wife who went down on a male stripper at a party for a friend, in your other question?
Ahhhh, get rid of this chick. She's trash. Find a decent women. They can be sexy too, and loyal to you instead of half the rest of the men around.
2006-06-25 22:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is his feet 'under your table' when you no longer sit at the table? Going back and forth does not justify your statement.
My good man, you have probably blown the only chance that you got. You have to accept the fact and move on.
2006-06-25 21:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-23 13:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is WHY would she take you back.???????????????? You blew it big time. The best prediction of the future is the past. You didn't prove to her that you were worthy of a life time commitment. She moved on......and I say Bravo to her!! Let her go. Hanging on will just be destructive toxic behavior.
2006-06-25 21:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2006-06-25 21:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-19 08:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dishonoured your wife the first time... what makes you think you deserve her? She's happy now, so you should let her be with someone who appreciates her.
2006-06-25 21:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by Ben C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not gonna happen. Move on. And that's what you get for cheating on her in the first place...Idiot.
2006-06-25 21:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋