i have a gf and whenever we are together things are good, sometimes great!!
but we agree on the way we should act when not together and as soon as i leave, she goes back to her old lifestyle of going out and being with her freinds. i tell her to control herself, but she does the complete opposite. what is wrong with her?
all she seems interested in is having fun, the more fights we have the more she does it. i tell her that we can have the life she wants together, but she cant seem to be responsible!
what should i do?
2006-06-25 21:03:25 · 7 answers · asked by carosal98 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she says that shell change but if she doesnt, after that many times of you telling her then it is very obvious that she wants to be settled for you but she is simple not ready. She chose the fun already so i say dump her unless you want to wait for her party urge to go away but it just might get worse. Go for a more connservative girl and good luck
2006-06-25 21:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is going out of control because you are trying to control her! You have no right to tell her what to do and what not to do in her own life, period. Accept her as she is without any changes being made, or get a different girlfriend. You cannot ask, demand or expect anyone to change into the person you want them to be!
2006-06-26 08:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love her so much that you don't want her to have any friends and fun when youre not around, right?? What a pea-head. Give the girl plenty of space. Maybe she'll find someone who will not be so selfish.
2006-06-26 04:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does it because she is a human being and she is entitled to have friends and a life apart from you. You should leave her alone and let her be herself if you want to be with her.
2006-06-26 04:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by noirdenat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are too controlling and she needs to breathe a little. loosen up and let her breathe. as long as she is not cheating on you or looking for another let her enjoy life.
2006-06-26 04:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by SHE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every individual needs his/her space. Give her the space she needs and u keep yours. Things will be fine.
2006-06-26 05:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by majorcavalry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about your behaviour. maybe you are wrong. think more.
2006-06-26 04:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋