Since we had some problems, I sent email to my boy f who is currently living far away, which was about my decision (break or couple) and asked for his decision. Then, I haven't got his reply for 10 days!!! I am thinking of 3 contexts:
- His silence means breaking.
- I know he currently has some business troubles. but why he doesnt drop some words like : " i am very busy now, we can talk about it later". ---> it depends on each person's style. I dont say that he must do it.
What is he really thinking?
What should i do: send email again OR wait, but how long should I wait?
Note: pls don't advise me to call him.
2006-06-25 20:56:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
take this into consideration....
if your bf really is into you-
as soon as he read your email, he'll be worried and disturbed that he will be panicking to dial your number and asap! talk to you and get things straight. if he has some troubles with business, still he must have a fraction of his time to say, "please bear with me for awhile, i am in trouble."
but he doesn't call or email back... silence tells all. don't call. move on. enjoy life!
2006-06-25 23:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by landslide13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lavie: Stop fooling yourself this guy is trying to leave you. If he cared he would contact you all the time just to check on you. I have the same problem. there is this girl that tells me that she is busy that she will call me back but never calls. I know that its some one else that is doing a far grater job on her than me. but its ok. However loving her is good and I'll accept it when I get it. The relationship just let me know that if she act like this now, dont make plans for something more serious (at all). Im john form San Antonio, Texas .
2006-06-26 04:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people say we should give guys some space when something like this hapens but i recon you have given him enough time already,all i have to say is,uestion girl moove on with your life it is quite clear that his not feeling u anymore and you might have actualy done him a favour by asking the question first,he might feel that you no longer wana continue like he does
2006-06-26 04:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by boomkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so send another email and wait for a reply, good luck.
2006-06-26 07:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very bad idea to draw conclusions based on email replies, or no replies for that matter
2006-06-26 05:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by vikram 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't want to be a part of the process, then you decide and tell him what you want to do.
or email him again. he may have missed it among all the spam!
2006-06-26 04:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Lavie: i think he wants to leave u, Or maybe he didnt checked his mails.
2006-06-26 04:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by miss_rimi1989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋