2006-06-25 20:16:28 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well i'm 14 and he was my best friend before that since 1st grade and we started going out 3 years ago and I know he hasn't done anything with anyone b/c were eachothers only friends
2006-06-25 20:30:23 · update #1
if you have to ask than you still have a doubt.. and thats not good, because doing that when your 14 will make you grow older much faster. I've got a friend that did it younger than you and she said she later cried... because once its done, its done forever. You'll never be a virgin again. if you want to spice things up, try to travel with him or whatever... there's no need to do this if you aren't ready... However if you think you sre ready to do this (and you really need to consider the good and the bads of having sex so young ) talk to someone older, and get protection!
If he is forcin you to do this however, than i think you shouldn't.... if he really likes you he'll wait...Think, and talk about that to your boyfriend!If you don't want to he'll understand...
Be sure to choose what YOU want, not what HE likes ok?
Hope i helped =)
2006-06-26 04:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by =) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be honest sex isn't what all it is cracked up to be. Of course you get the fun and the pleasure but whats to come after that? If you didn't use protection a child could arrive and there goes a lot of dreams you may have. I do suggest really waiting even if you think that will be the person you will marry. I made the wrong decision by going ahead and having sex. I dated the guy over a year and it turned out he was a person that wasn't what I wanted to be with. In the long run I do wish I would have saved my virginity to someone who deserved it, the man I will marry and share my life with. My opinion is to wait, but if you think you should, remember use protection.
2006-06-25 20:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by blonde4life_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only have sex with your boyfriend if you are ready to be intimate with him. Being a virgin is a gift, a fact that I did not realize until years later. So you are lucky to have your virginity still, not many girls have this. By this being said you need to keep this in mind. Even though you have known him since first grade, that still does not mean anything. If you truly love him, like really really really love him and he has the same love for you, then go for it. But even if you have that same love, it is your choice. Having sex requires a lot of responsibility and drains your emotions. I think that you value his friendship so keep that in mind when you want to have sex with him. Sex can change a lot of things. And oftentimes it is for the worst.
2006-06-26 08:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have asked this question, then you are not ready for sex. You did not say your age but I assume you are too young and should wait. There are so many dangers of sex as it is truly life and death now with AIDS and so many diseases out there.
No boy should make you have sex to prove your love. It is better to wait. I was a virgin when I married at 21 and I never regretted waiting. Think before you make this decision, and suppose you get pregnant, it is not fair to bring a baby into this world when you are young and not prepared to deal with this responsibility.
2006-06-25 20:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Karen L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Guys mostly sleep with you then leave you. Also there is too many risks, even in "safe sex". There is no such thing. People always get STD's and become pregnant. Sex is an emotional bond that should be shared between husband and wife. If someone loves you enough to have sex with you then they love you enough to marry you first. Your not ready for sex if your not ready for a baby or a serious commitment. (never trust guys when it comes to sex and when they say they will always be there)
2006-06-25 20:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by A* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a dangerous playground-seriously! I live in a small community where the std's and unplanned pregnancies run rampant. Besides, keeping your virtue is very attractive once you meet the person you want to spend the rest of your life with-it DOES NOT show that you care. You can care about someone without giving into some horny boys bullshit.
2006-06-25 20:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by brandi l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, wait untill you're married. You could get pregnant or some disease. And you are only 14. 14 year olds shouldn't even have boyfriends. Let alone start thinking about having sex.
2006-06-25 20:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Montana Snow Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because you are too young. You are also below the age of consent. May be it is better to wait for another 2 or 3 years.
2006-06-25 20:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by elijah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking this question and asking on an open forum at that then young lady all I can tell you is that you are not quite there in the area of responsibility. My suggestion is that you wait until you can understand what I mean. Enjoy your summer.
2006-06-25 20:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by brian s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u want to have sex with him because he's ur friend?? and boyfriend?? That's not a good enough reason, u're going to grow up. Y rush things, u have ur whole life and if he's the one for u waiting will only make it better, u'll be more mature and better able to enjoy the experience.
2006-06-26 05:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by Pumkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋