I'm 19 and been with my bf for 7 months now and we really love each other. I've always used to believe in sex after marriage but recently i can't fight the feeling that i wanna do it with him, however, we come from different countries and we both know it'd be hard to get married. What should i do?
2006-06-25 20:06:49 · 7 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only you can answer this question and I know thats not the answer you're looking for but you're obvisiously a smart girl for even considering it and not just going for it. Go with your heart, think about how your decision will make you feel about yourself and how you'll feel if things don't work out.
Good Luck
2006-06-25 20:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by akamoonpie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look i was 17 when i first had sex.and thought he was all i would ever want....i married him and for years i thought...i could never love anyone else like this....i stayed married to him for 13 years and it ended....i thought i would never get over it....but i did eventually and started dating again after a year...well my point is...after i started dating this guy we totally fell...."IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER"....i was 31 when i knew there was a diff between i love you...and Im in love with u....it took me all those years to realize the diff...when i realized....i was really shocked that i figured out that i only loved my husband....and was not in love with him....ok the point im getting at is...i would have given anything it i had been a virgin when i found this man that i fell in love with...i wish i had that special gift to give him.....it would have been the greatest thing....so all im saying is hold on....what u think is love maybe only be a big crush....cause once u lose it u can't get it back.....Good Luck....and remember from the age 19 to the age 25-30 ur thoughts change..your desires change...ur style will change....ur expectations will change...and u want no regrets when all ur feeling about things change.. you don't want to be in the position that ur wishing u could go back....but can't....sorry so long just a subject that has hit home for me....
2006-06-25 20:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by pma_hc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait...don't change your beliefs for a man. Trust me, not only will he respect you more, you will respect yourself more. That is the gift that you can only give once...make sure you give it to the right person.
2006-06-25 20:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by soulfli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought you both are hard to get marry. don't have sex him. but i guess you can kiss him is ok for this relationship.
2006-06-25 20:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it...It will make it worse if you can't be with him...Trust me it will hurt you more after you split...
2006-06-25 20:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jean f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold on, what happens if he goes back to his country
2006-06-25 20:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO IT HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!!!
2006-06-25 20:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Timmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋