she was the best friend i ever had.. we were having a very good healthy friendship.. i myself never let our friendship turn into some sexual relationship.. but now when she's with another guy and in a relationship with him my heart is burning like hell.. how can i get her back.. i really need her.
2006-06-25 19:48:02 · 15 answers · asked by Hammad 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i m a guy..
2006-06-25 19:56:04 · update #1
the trouble is that she's not kinda girl who date ppl again and again.. she's one guy only kinda girl.. :(
2006-06-25 20:01:48 · update #2
you said u were having a "good healthy friendship"... wuz it just a frendship or u wanted to have a sexual relationship... cuz if it wuz just a good frendship... then u shud be happy 4 her... cuz if she's happy, u shud be happy 2... but if u say u r unhappy and wanna get her back... then its more than just frendship, sweety...
So now when she is wid sum other guy.... i think u shud let her go and let her live her life the way she wants to live...
2006-06-25 20:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Desipride_sophia 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Gotta let her go her own way, bro. I have had a few women friends in my life, and it is possible to just be friends. Most of the time, however, there is some attraction going on at some level. I think you liked her a bit more than you want to admit, and never initiated anything more out of either fear of rejection or loss of the friendship. One of my best friends is a woman, and we kind of messed around a few times in the beginning, but ended up just being buddies. She is now living with this great guy who treats her well, and now I hang out with her boyfriend more than her! He's cool and I'm happy for my girl "friend". Give them some space to get their relationship going, and then maybe invite both of them out for drinks or someting else you all enjoy either alone or with other people. Who knows, instead of losing your friend, you will gain another one. Next time you find yourself having a good friendship with a woman that you find attractive, maybe give it a shot before you end up in the "friend" zone. Good Luck!
2006-06-26 03:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Spillski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant get her back, she is you best friend and thats all she will ever be! If you are a true as you say you are, you would understand that she is happy and learn to accept it! You could also talk to her and let her know but man you need to let her live her life. Maybe you could get a girl friend and double date that way you coud get more time together....
2006-06-26 02:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the mistake of never telling her you had feelings in the first place. Now you have to either move on or wait until the relationship between her and her boyfriend are over.
~Pancake
2006-06-26 02:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get her back. Girls like spending time with their boyfriends more. They probably make fun of you behind your back too. But she will never tell you. She has lots of secrets that she only tells her boyfriend. You will never know all the things she says. You have to go find yourself a girl of your own.
2006-06-26 02:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by jacksfullhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u did not realize but accept it that u r in love wid dat girl.u say that ur heart burns when she is not dere wid u, n then again u say that its a healthy relationship.
am goin thru the same set of emotions so i know exactly how u feel.hope u r able 2cope wid this pain
all the best
angel
2006-06-26 02:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always say chicks before ***** and mates before dates. The truth is you cant really get her back, and chances are the relationship probably wont work is she is so consumed by him so, as a best friend you can just ready ready to catch her when she gets her heart broken by him
2006-06-26 02:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by Leah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is ur real frnd she will surely come back coz ders alot of difference between a lover n a real, true frnd... n being a girl i know dat girls understand frndship..... if u feel dat ur her best frnd i suppose u dont know urself coz a best frnd does not want his frnd to be near him but 2 be happy in watever she does... n i guess she's happy wid her bf n so shud u... so if ur a true frnd prove urself n im sure she'll recognise wat she's avoiding... n ya dont think of breaking frndship coz dats the only thing that lucky ppl get...so love.live n let live!!! keep smiling!
2006-06-26 03:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by tanya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hii friend if you want to get your friend back then make friendship that person which your friend like or she is with now . its not a joke but an experience am shairing with u. with alots of love & smile. pruna
2006-06-26 03:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by purna_das13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah...
Go and get another girl to be your girl friend
If you consider her to be your best friend dont you ever ruin her relationship with her boy friend
Good luck
2006-06-26 02:56:59 · answer #10 · answered by Curiosity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋