Actually I'm living with someone who's supposed to be my boyfriend. His mother is living with us. She's a very bad woman. She's never happy whatever I do. She is really insane... it's seems she like to start quibbles for nothing. Well, the main probleme is that I can leave those people because of the money. They help me very much. And I think I'm not in love anymore with my boyfriend. What should I do???
2006-06-25 19:13:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get a job and move out.
2006-06-25 19:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by jacksfullhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. If you can't leave because of the money (that's what I think you mean), think again. You can. Get a job if you don't have one, and save for a down payment on an apartment. Get out if you're unhappy. If you don't love your boyfriend, you're just using him for a place to live. You don't want to use people.
2006-06-26 02:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lady.
1. you have to have respect for your self and get U'r dignity
2. Try to get job and leave this unrespectfull family.
3. A girl with out Love is noting to do with life
but think it 10 times how you leave this family and how well you live b/c whatever you said that you already adapt them when you out this family you will feel some loneliness you have to get Job and you have to be strong to live Alon otherwise U'll back to them if so thing will be so worse.....
GOD HELP YOU!
2006-06-26 02:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by ethio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the sake of everyone involved, you might want to move out. This will give everyone a brake. You might discover that you really do love him. If so, you could move back in when the mother problem is solved. If not, you just freed yourself up to find a little happieness. good luck
2006-06-26 02:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by lightningviper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy, the best thing to do is move out...you'll work things out (financially) along the way & find something better for yourself...
You don't deserve to be treated like that...
If you leave & have no money, you'll at least still have your dignity, which is a lot :)
Good Luck
2006-06-26 02:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by ♥WestlifeForLife♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not stuck, you are capable of doing anything you want although you have convinced yourself you can't. Do you work? if not get a job save money and get out as this sounds like a very bad situation and its obvious you are not happy.
2006-06-26 02:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by hell_in_a_handbasket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation and there's nothing you can do but ride the bumps until you've either got somewhere to go or have the money to move out. Good luck!
2006-06-26 02:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, i am not sure how your relationship is with your family, but if it is good you should go home.... my family is always there to pick me up when i fall down.....
you should also make sure you are no longer in love with your boyfriend, cause if you are then don't leave him....things have got to get bad be4 they can get great again.... this is just another test of your love.
if you don't love him and your relationship with your parents is bad you might consider getting a student loan, and live in dorms and go to school and get your education and youll be able to prepare yourself for the future
2006-06-26 02:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by jim20032003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get a job so you can have your own money, find a perfect place for yourself, and break up with him, if you really don't love him anymore.
2006-06-26 02:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by Green Tara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your fi ances in secret and than GET OUT OF there. You can't change her and the mpore you try to make her like you the less she will.
2006-06-26 02:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋