My friend has only been married for 6 months.. My friend caught her husband in bed with another woman.. They didn't see her.. she quietly slipped away.. but she wants to get even.. There's more.. worst of all, the husband had his slut wearing her lingerie.. How can she get even?
2006-06-25 19:13:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No violent ideas please.....
2006-06-25 19:17:38 · update #1
"Two wrongs don't make a right!" She'll be the better person if she doesn't stoop to his level!
There is no correct answer to this question...your friend is hurt right now...she needs time to think before she doesn't something she'll regret!
Marriage is a sacred vow....he obviously didn't take it that way! I don't believe in divorce but more so don't believe in adultery. If she was to "get even" she would be committing adultery also. Like I said, there is no correct answer to your question. Only she knows what is best!
2006-06-25 19:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by princessshellaire 2 · 10⤊ 1⤋
She should buy some extremely sexy new lingerie, show it to her husband and say "Honey, do you like this? It is SO sexy. I bet anyone would look drop-dead gorgeous in this. It's just hanging in the closet waiting for us... I'm saving it for next weekend, because I've got something special planned."
Then she should secretly fill the crotch with hot pepper flakes, or black pepper, or itching powder (from a novelty shop). Make sure it's strong stuff!
Then she should leave the ligerie hanging in the closet and wait.
When the **** wears the lingerie, (and the hubby will make sure she does), she will get what's coming to her. (The moisture will activate the pain and itching.)
Then she should divorce him.
2006-06-25 19:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should have an affair with another woman to get back at him.
Actually, no, that might not have the effect she wants.
She should probably just do like Eddie Murphy used to say women do and take half (get a divorce). Probably not the most creative response, but then again, there was my first idea.
2006-06-25 19:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by ahandle101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hope she intends on confronting him.
Anyway I don't want to get into the ethics of trying to sort out her marriage. Here are my favourite revenge pranks:
*Prawn shells in the curtain rods, air con unit etc - probably best not to do it if she lives with him still though. You could also put them in the air con vents of the car or someplace else that is hard to get to.
*Deep heat cream in the knickers. If you have ever had a groin injury and accidentally rubbed the cream in to high you will understand the burn. Ouch. Maybe she could try and do it to a pair of her knickers and make sure they are on top of the draw next time she suspects her hubby and girlfriend intend on playing up?
2006-06-25 19:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by kimberhill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story is a crock of crap. You know exactly what went down and your here looking for sympathizers to make you feel better. I have never been too drunk to know where I was putting my pecker. I have also never met a woman too drunk to know whats up. If you were that drunk, you would suffer a black out and not even know you had sex. The fact you can describe in such detail the encounter, says you were able to scream, kick, and fight. His wife is laying right next to you and you don't wake her up and say: "Excuse me, but I think your husband is laying me".You liked it and you don't want your friend to know. Nobody that feels like they were truly "raped" acts like you do.
2016-03-27 04:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the heat of the moment, we all can do some dumb things...
PLAN!!
You need to remove yourself from him as soon as possible, like a shelter, friends where he can't find you etc. You don't want to get hurt, and you may talk with a DA as far as a restraining order if you feel he may be some threat to you.
The way you WILL get even is when you deny yourself to him, and you are not there for him anymore.
2006-06-25 19:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she wants more of the same she should get a divorce. This kind of action is the only time I would recommend it. She may be able to forgive him , but she will never forget it. It is very painful. It will take almost forever to get over it and possibly never. I sincerely hope she is not pregnant. Get out and stay out.
2006-06-25 19:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by oscar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget getting even it will not make her feel better. What she should be doing is getting ready to dump this looser. If he would cheat during the "honeymoon" period there is not chance that he won't do it later when things cool off and get more stressful. Stop with the high school nonsense and tell your friend to get her life together with out this jerk don't try to become one herself
2006-06-25 19:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by digimutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her to calm down and forget getting even. she'll only do something she'll regret once she cools off. what i would do is, find someone to spend a couple of days with. i would not let him know where i was and would ask everyone to deny having seen me. then i'd get a lawyer, and get my hands on divorce papers. once i had them, i'd go home when he wasn't there, have the locks changed, pack up all his things and leave them by the door, with the divorce papers neatly set on top of the pile.
2006-06-25 19:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get even? Just tell him to get bent and divorce him. Obviously he doesn't have much invested in his marriage if he's already cheating six months into it. I hate to say it, but he's probably been cheating on her the whole time they've been together!
2006-06-25 19:20:55 · answer #10 · answered by sparklediamant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋