I have never been to a gay sauna before. The reason why I want to go there is simple; I just want to enjoy the spa! I do not have any other intention (well, of course, eye-shopping on guys, but that's about it!). I don't go there for sex whatsoever. Is it going to be safe? I mean, what if somebody hit on you while you are not interested? What should I expect in terms of people interaction, if I go there by myself. I'm single all the way that's why I don't have anybody to go with.
If you wonder, the spa is "The Pleasuredrome" in London, UK. http://www.pleasuredrome.com/home.asp
Help me please! Thanks!
2006-06-25 19:08:07 · 12 answers · asked by badpuppy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well I dont wanna be conceited about myself but I'm only 20 and going to such place by myself whereas everybody else is probably more experienced than me. I went to Admiral Duncan (for those of you who live in London) by myself few weeks ago, and I ended up being rudely touched with a 70yo man -- whom I have already told him that I am not interested.
2006-06-25 19:22:25 · update #1
Duh, in response to some of your replies; I am obviously gay. Don't I sound like it though? Lol. I'm 100% sure that no straight guys would go to a gay spa. Lol.
2006-06-26 02:29:23 · update #2
Absolutely, it's safe! Things are much the same as in a really friendly pub. If you're not interested, just say "No thank you."
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with and pleasuredome is supposed to be the pants! I wish I were going.
2006-06-25 19:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by blueowlboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pleasuredome Gay Sauna
2016-12-17 05:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just go to a spa? If you are going to a gay spa others will assume you are also gay and you might get hit on but I don't see why you would be any less safe there than anywhere else. So if you're not gay why specifically a gay spa?
2006-06-25 19:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by digimutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MATE come on!
now i sure wouldnt go on my own and im 30!
i think all gay saunas are percieved as sex dens, well in my view anyhow
try and get a mate to go with ya failing taht i will come from norfolk and take ya's!
2006-06-25 22:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I am going to a gar sauna by myself this weekend. This is my first time to go gay sauna in US. (I am an international student.) I am curious and scared and excited.
2006-06-30 02:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's safe. you can go and just relax. And if you get hit on by someone your not interested in just simple tell that person your not interested.
2006-06-26 08:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no thank you.....You do not have to do anything you do not wish to...and if u do , just assume everyone is HIV positive or have aids...that way you will take whatever precaution you need from geting infected.....
2006-06-26 04:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb question.!!
Its like asking, is it safe to go to a straight sauna by yourself??
mmmmmm you homofobic freak!!!
2006-06-25 21:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by krulllrwarriorking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define "safe"
2006-07-02 12:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by scary g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.. whatever dude.. i dont think anyone is gonna try to rape you.. just tell them you're not interested.. no commitment to look at them.. have a good time.. doing what you do..
2006-06-25 19:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋