Ok so my father came to my house just now and left MAD because he thinks I had "it" with a black male, I dont know anyone and I most dont know ANY black males. My father said that I called my grandmother crying and I told her I was scared because I had "it" with a black male. I never did this. How could they get this crazy idea?? Then my grandmother heard my EXACT voice on the phone this is really strange any one have ideas of what this could have been? They now think I'm not a virgin and I'm pregnant. I do not NOT know how they got this idea..do you think you know any ideas as what this call would have been a prank-call or something. Please help..and I am 12 and NEVER had sex!!
2006-06-25 18:46:50 · 23 answers · asked by ~*princess*~ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm also a white person so how can they get this type of idea? Any suggestions??
2006-06-25 18:50:14 · update #1
I also told my dad I think black boys are cute he probably got an insane idea outta there. My mother takes that funny she does not wish to take me to a doctor for such "stupidity" my father is talking about.
2006-06-25 18:54:26 · update #2
my dad thinks thats why I'm over weight isn't like every girl over weight?? I'm 150 lbs I dont think that's fat enough
2006-06-25 18:59:49 · update #3
Damn there's still people in the KKK? But really have a doc examine you to tell them for you.
2006-06-25 18:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm, wow this is strange it could have possibly been a prank call an enemy or a mistake. As the person was VERY worried they would have not noticed this was your grandma. If you have had any strange or crutial enemys recentley they probably were trying to do something to make any family member get worried and get ill. As I am not sure if you did have sex with a black male you NEED to confece but if you did not ask your grandmother is she had caller id at the time happening you need to be an expert at finding out these things. If your parents dont believe ya go to a doctor or at a store and take a pregnancy test. I'm am so sorry your parents think you are not a virgin dont give up hope you know the truth. If I have any clue in this problem the prank call would have been by an enimi that has some problem with you this is very misunderstandable. They think their 12 year old daughter would be doing this? That is terrible! I bid you good luck. Take care!
2006-06-25 19:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by ▐▀▀☼▀▀▌ ☼Sharon☼ ▐▄▄☼▄▄▌ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess i can only ask your dad a question here. Will you let him read it please?
Where have you been for 12 years that you do not know you daughter. You should not have to take a phone call to make a judgement one way or the other you should know and i mean you should know. So Dad hang it up and get to know your child.
Now i am not a punk kid lol I am 62 and raised my family. Your turn now so do it right.
Now if you or others think she may be pregnant I ask you why have you or your wife not already taken her to doctor or at least got one the test you buy in drug stores these day.
2006-07-07 08:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by jjnsao 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a dilemma
I would suggest that you have your mother take you to the doctor for a check up and have the doctor write on a piece of paper her finding, Doctors can tell wither or not you have had sex or not and that should be good enough for your father.
If that doesn't work then sounds like your dad has his own issues to get over...
Give it time and the family should get over this little mishap...
Be true to yourself and don't let them make you feel bad about something that you didn't even do.
2006-07-08 04:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say, you write very well for a 12 year old!
Someone Is Playing a Bad Joke on you!
Tell them that you will take a lie detector test!
Offer to go to the Doctor. A Doctor will be able to tell if you have had sex. Since you are only 12 and have not had sex... this should help!
2006-07-09 18:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to hurt but I think you need to do this. It sounds like someone, who sounded like you, called grandma as a prank or by mistake.
So what I would do is request that your mom and dad take you to the doctor for tests. Explain to the doctor why you want him to run a pregnancy test and a test to see if your still a virgin. I am sure there is one.
Honey it is the only way to prove to them you have not had sex and are not pregnant. I know this is terrible that you have to do this. It shows that they do not trust your word, so you are going to have to prove it to them.
If they refuse to take you to the doctor, then make them drive you to a free clinic where you can get these tests done.
2006-07-07 07:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like old granny's getting senile, or maybe it was a prank call. It might really be violating to you, but you should go have a sex test(they will have to look at you down there and possibly insert some instrument, I don't know) at the doctor, and tell you father to go with you so you can prove to him once and for all(maybe at that point he'll believe you and won't make you do that) and then have the doctor tell him herself.
2006-06-25 18:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by Rockstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get ova it, obviously Ur hole family are a bunch of racist against black people tell Ur dad that Ur 12 years old and thats pathetic and ur granny is loosin it, and also tell him its 2006 not 1906 and so what if u did have sex with a "black male" at least if you where like years older than what you are now anyways.
also they will see that your clearly not pregnant when you don't put weight on and no baby comes in 9months time. won't they. don't worry if they have no trust in you at all then that's their fault, they the ones that fail as a parent you don't fail as person.
2006-06-25 18:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy crap! it is probably a prank call. just call your father and explain to him and if he wont talk to you leave a message it is better to explain things through the answering machine. and then, CALL YOUR GRANDMA!!!!!!! what the heck! i honestly think it was a prank call, she is old, probably didnt understand or something. youfr gonna have to prove it 2 him by going to the doctor. but most importantly, dont give in, u know you didnt have sex with him. good luck!
2006-06-25 18:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by :))) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, what exactly is going on with you and your family? Sounds like a lot more there than whether or not you are pregnant. Or have been keeping company with black guys.
2006-07-07 08:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by brian k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please thats when you DEMAND a pregnancy test and pee on it then watch it turn negative then shove it in your dads face call your grandma and ask why she did that and see if she has caller id and then what are you saying black male and just because you 12 dosnt mean you cant say sex say it with me S E X please that would be like oh im preg cuz i did IT with a HISPANIC male relax its not that big of a deal maybe you should be askin this in the pre teen section....not in the pregnancy one well anyways good luck with that one
2006-06-26 06:17:06 · answer #11 · answered by mama lesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋