I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 15. She tells me she wants to wait until after high school to have sex, but when we're alone she gets really touchy. It gets confusing as to what she really wants because if it were me I'm ready to do it. If she really wanted to wait then I'd be happy to wait with her. Is this my problem that I'm making such a big deal out of it?
2006-06-25 18:41:34 · 49 answers · asked by Mr. Nart 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Be careful...she is young and you could really get into trouble. You should wait.
2006-06-25 18:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Phil J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not making a big deal out of it and thank God there are still some nice guys out there who are willing to wait. You need to tell your girlfriend that if she really wants to wait-which is a very good idea since she's only 15- you guys need to set some boundaries. If you can't go further than kissing without feeling like you want to go all of the way, then don't go further than that. Her being touchy will only frustrate you, or you two will have sex and either one or both of you will regret it later on since that wasn't the plan. Losing your virginity is a very big deal. I don't want to preach or anything, but it might be an even better idea for you to wait until you're married. I know that you're probably tired of hearing that from parents and other grown ups, but I know a lot of people who wish that they had waited. I wish that I had waited. Now that I am married, the thing that I regret most is that I could not share that first experience with my husband. So just think about it.
2006-06-25 18:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by kutieface90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually think you truly love/like and respect her. I wouldn't do anything until she says ok. If you guys wait until after high school that is awesome. You know there are other ways of stimulating yourselves with out having sex. If she wants to be horny and touchy w/o the sex than think of some other ways of pleasing each other.
Good luck
2006-06-26 13:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by misses e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, your over 16 years of age, you can be charged with rape to a minor with her being only 15. Use your head, you know which one, theres more to life then sex, build a relationship of love, not sex, you have your whole life ahead of you. Be a man... no wait, I take that back... be a gentleman and respect her, the rewards will be greater for both of you that first time. Buy yourself a girlie magazine and fantasize about being with her while you spank it, but don't disrespect a minor especially at 15 years old.
2006-07-09 14:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by LEO H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to respect her and wait till after high school. If you like the girl, it will be worth the wait. You sound like a sensitive guy, she's lucky. She sounds like someone i know. She may wanna run to home base, but she may be nervous of what her friends may think. Or she don't want her parents to find out. Just stick with her for a while. She'll come around.
2006-07-03 15:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by LadiBug23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know I wanted to wait until marriage & totally didn't make it. what I got was a baby @ 16. Luckily my bf was older had a good job adn could support our son. Condoms break, pills get forgotten & getting pregnant isnt' all that hard. I would try to go out in groups with friends if it's too hard to be alone. Besides she'll love you more if you wait & if it doesn't work out you won't be sorry.
2006-07-04 18:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by atotalditz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you see yourself being a Dad at 19 if not I would wait a kid is for life. Sex only pleasures you for 30 minuets at the most depending on your stamina. Always remember that with Sex comes alot of responsibility if your not careful. I see more teen pregnancies now then in the past.
2006-06-25 19:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kandie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please wait
you are 17 an will be 18
after you are 18 in most state sex with her will put you in jail
should really wait until married
stop touching her so much
don't encourage sex
you are looking for big big trouble
and what's an 17 year old doing with an 15 year old anyway
2006-07-06 07:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by AnaMay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she is ready she will let you know. it okay. it a normal feeling for you. You will know when she is ready. You are doing the right thing on waiting for her. Than makes you a man. That what a girl want to see in you.
My sister did this to her bf she waited to see if he would wait. And he waited even though he really wanted sex. later on my sister made a move. She made it special for him. If you wait for her and prove you are a man. She will do something special for you.
2006-07-09 14:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your girlfriend and she has asked you to wait then wait....She gets all touchy because she is wanting you to pamper her and be emotional with her...you can touch without having sex....
Your girl is someone very special because not too many females are waiting to have sex....
2006-07-05 19:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't ready to go all the way then respect that!! Just because you go to 2nd and 3rd base does not mean she is ready to go for the home run!! Just fooling around isn't that bad as long as you respect her not wanting to have sex right now. Don't let those actions confuse you, she's just being playful!!
2006-06-25 18:46:12 · answer #11 · answered by mccamel1666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋