hi i think my 12 yr old daughter got her period bubt i dont know how to ask if she did..
2006-06-25 18:40:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Have you talked to her about it? Maybe you could give her some more information about it. Or you could take her to the grocery store and buy some for yourself while she's there to open up the topic more easily.
2006-06-25 18:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is the perfect opportunity to open the doors of communication. I didn't feel that I could talk to my mom when I got my period, that also meant that I wasn't comfortable talking to her about other things too. It's so important that they feel comfortable talking to us. It's so good that you're concerned and want to talk to her. Maybe just say, if you ever want to talk you know I'm here, or something like that to open the conversation. Or maybe talk about when you got yours, and how old you were.... then let her know that she's free to tell you when she gets it, maybe she'd tell you that she already has. Or even just say,"when you get your period, if there's anything you need just let me know" You could probably offer a lot of advise too, and get her the products that she's comfortable with.
2006-06-25 19:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well umm im aguy but the best way is to talk her into that subject like first start out by talking about growin up n physical changes n all of a sudden juss ask her straight out have u had ur period?? trust me she woulnd lie to u since ur her mom. (im not sure this will solve or answer ur ? but then again im only 13 sorryyyy.)
2006-06-25 22:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and ask, she's probably to shy to come to you or she would have already.
Cheeks will turn red, eyes will look away, something may be mumbled but neither of you will die of embarrassment.
She needs the information you can give her, just ask her.
2006-06-25 19:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by liathano70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I haven't been on either side of this issue, just be a parent and ask her if there is anything new. Its a parent's responsibility to be involved in their kid's lives.
2006-06-25 18:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is have a talk to her about the change, when she got her period.
2006-06-25 18:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tori 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jsut buy her the stuff she needs and put it in a place she will find it, that other people wont see. and write her a note about it. then even if she hasnt started it, shell be prepared. thats what my stepmom did, and i really liked it :]
2006-06-25 20:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by dolfinzangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say, "honey, let me know when you need to go to the store for some pads or tampons." she'll be embarrased for a while but at least she'll know you know and then its no big secret.
2006-06-26 04:53:42 · answer #8 · answered by shelby_kay_91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it eventually u will have to buy tamps for her so just wait
2006-07-02 14:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think she got and di'nt tell you?You have to sit her down and talk to her.
2006-06-25 19:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by It's all Love!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋