I got married a week back. I am enough crazy about sex and we had it 5-6 times in a day but my wife wants till more. I am exhausted and cant do it more and i try to divert her attention to indulge in some other things but she has only one thing on her mind always... She was a virgin and she says she has strongly become addicted to sex. Is it normal or is she a crazy gal??
2006-06-25 18:40:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You haven't given her an orgasm yet and it is driving her crazy.....I'm a woman, I know all about it.
2006-06-25 18:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry. Work hard. Trust her. Work hard to master your career and earn a lot of money. Don't spend too much. Many respondents assumed you're not giving her enough orgasms. You may or may not be. That's not important in the long run. Trust God. **** her up the butt if she accepts you there. If not, wait and do it later. But, you must master her. If she hasn't had an orgasm, lick her clitoris lightly and steadily. Don't speed up no matter what. Be sensitive to her.
But back to money. You must be serious about your relation to her, and your ability to earn AND SAVE money is paramount. I could not emphasize that more. I have four kids, have been married, I don't know, at least eight years because my oldest son is eight. I take out all the trash. I teach English and earn 6 thousand a month, but am getting tired from speaking so much, so I write books, English conversation books. If you start another business, make it VERY similar to your basic competency, just an expansion on that. Learn to love the work you do, and turn away jobs that seem to offend your dignity, which means though you take their money, you don't feel it helps them. Be very sensitive to your conscience, and always work towards building greater character and a more ethical product that you offer the public. Plan for vacations well, and invest a lot of time in your kids. I do most of the house keeping and kid care. You do that and your wife won't leave you. She'll give great blow jobs throughout your life, and she'll not seek out the affection of others. Oh, also, don't use contraceptives. She'll get pregnant right off the bat, and then she'll lose some libido as she loses some sleep getting up during the night to walk around the house holding the baby. You do that, too, though. Every bit of work you do to spare her work works towards the good of the family. Gotta go.
Love, Nathaniel
2006-06-26 02:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Nathaniel Long 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow ... only I doubt that she is making a full disclosure here. A woman who has never had any sexual experience isn't going to be instantly on from your wedding night on. Sounds like there is something else in her past that is manifesting itself just now.
I met a woman who had been through some bad and abusive experiences as a young girl. As a result, her sexual appetite was insatiable. One man wasn't even enough. She would do most anyone anytime of day. She was a sweet girl and very honest with me ... she knew who she was and simply didn't know what to do about it. All of the counseling and therapy only informed her of why she was crazy for sex all the time. It didn't solve the problem.
I think you have more on your hands than you realize. It sounds great right now to all of us out here ... but maybe you should talk to her about what all has happened in the past. This kind of interest in sex by a newly married virgin is unknown in my experience.
2006-06-26 01:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be smart. Buy a good vibrator she can use when you are not up to it. But if you are under thirty and cannot keep up with her you have a real problem. Viagra may help. you are a lucky guy. Also she could be manic depressive and calm down, though incompletely, on one of the common antidepressants. A psychiatrist could help greatly if that is the situation.
2006-06-26 01:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by syrious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. Try and indulge in some other activities and maybe go out to a public place. Go for jogging etc
2006-06-26 01:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is healthy and normal. My wife (although not a virgin) was the same way when we met and got married. Soon enough you may remembering these times and wishing for their return. So go for it dude!
2006-06-26 02:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by asitcomes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, great question but it sounds like Adult Content to me and I don't want any of those weasel Puritans flagging me again... Wish I could help, but Yahoo is going full bore with this censorship thing. And here I thought it was just the poor Chi-Coms that got censored by them...
2006-06-26 01:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your stuck now buddy.... didnt you ever hear of the phrase you have to test drive a car before you buy it. If I was you, on a Saturday invest in a pill ov viagra and then give it to her so much she will leave you a lone for a lil bit!
2006-06-26 01:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is the SO ...
I suggest not to indulge in mechanical action of sex..directly
instead...
make yourself buisy by any activity around her...even unnatural...
just to elongate the rest period.
prepare her,,,or inflame her by several ways first..
wispering..touching...kissing..dancing..listen to music...
rearranging the bed ,collecting flowers.......etc..hey man...u can invent 1000s of stuff...come on
ask her to be on top...at least will be tired after some walk of 10-15 minutes..and will stop asking so
use some ointment prepared for delaying ejaculating....
protest BEFOR making love that you love her and try to insist...BUT spontaneously ....and NOT DIRECTLY after ,,otherwise she likes more..
2006-06-26 07:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by hora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you'd better be grateful, and ride her hard, keep her happy and find additional ways to stimulate her. Some of us guys are lucky to get it once a year bub.
2006-06-26 08:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that, man. I know what your giong thru. I got my wife 2 "play toys" that I use on her, when I can't go anymore, I keep her going and she's very satisfied!!!!
2006-06-26 01:47:49 · answer #11 · answered by jtracer48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋