2006-06-25 18:28:57 · 17 answers · asked by trishie 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
It isn't for many women. Do you masturbate? If not, then how do you know what you like, what you need? If you do, then work on your communication with your partner. Don't be afraid to talk about what you enjoy. It makes a huge difference.
If you have a difficult time climaxing when you masturbate, then you may want to seek medical help.
2006-06-25 18:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't fret; You might not be doing anything wrong. Because the act of sex is more emotional for women, and more physical for men, a lot more thought and feeling has to be put into it for a woman.
If she is stressed, or self-conscious, or just not feeling very loved at the moment, it will be harder for her to let herself go. It's also very common for women with past issues (such as being molested as a child, etc.) to be sexually dysfunctional.
The best thing you can do for your lover is to be patient. If you get tired before she reaches that point of ecstasy, try using a vibrating toy first. Chances are, once she is finally able to orgasm in front of you, it will get easier and easier each time. Good luck!
2006-06-26 01:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason is (especially during intercourse) is that your clitoris is not being stimulated. In some women the act of intercourse still tugs at their clitoris enough to provide the necessary stimulation.
I would suggest you try being on top, that way you can control the angle and the stimulation your clitoris requires.
As for solo efforts, the mind is the largest sex organ, you need to stimulate it as well as your clitoris. Learn to fantasize, think either about things you have never done, or remember the most erotic moments of your life while you play.
Next, search for your G-Spot; it is inside under your pubis, once you know how to stimulate that manually, you can also see if you can have it stimulated during intercourse if you can get the right angle of penetration.
Finally, find a man that is patient and willing to help you find your hot buttons.... ;)
2006-06-26 01:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she most times not have a mood to sex when u do with her. Usually she give u only a company to satisfy you. Although you must give so so sooo much caring and kisses to her... Also is need a lot of trusts in you that means no fear...
Thanks
2006-06-26 01:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this question should be worded more like....for "some" girls to orgasm.
It really depends on the woman. Some get aroused in different spots than others.
Good luck with your adventures! :)
2006-06-26 01:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem when I org at sim.
Dumbass
2006-06-26 01:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by sexxymexxy926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not a girl but i think i can help!!! you are not pleasing them good enough you have to be wild kinky u got to make them hot n feeling really really good that helps
2006-06-26 01:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's spelled "orgasm" and it's because your partner, yourself or both, are not good in bed. Practice makes perfect...
2006-06-26 01:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by Chelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls just can't through intercourse, believe it or not... my girlfriend has this problem, we use other methods...ie: clitoral stimulants, vibrators, but she has never had one through intercourse EVER, even before me...BTW I'm a guy, hope that's ok
2006-06-26 01:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by davinbrent_atx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick your fingers in your **** and reach around till you wana pee, get used to that then find a big cock or cucumber and enjoy
2006-06-26 01:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by skippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋