need help..please?

Question

i have been with my boyfriend off and on for 10 years. 3 times he left me for his x wife. and 1 time for one of his kids. and every time it dont work out with his x he comes back to me. this last time he left me for his x he came back and he moved in with a friend of his. to help with there bills. now he is liveing with his mother. the only time i hear from him is when. he asks me how i am doing. i dont see him much at all. please tell me what you think. help

Answer 1

I think that he is using you.... move on and find someone that you deserve, someone who will apprciate your honesty and committment. Based on what you wrote, this guy comes with xtras that you don't need to deal with.

Answer 2

You know the answer already or you wouldn't have asked your question. Girl! value yourself more than that! sounds like he is a looser. Go find yourself a real man that will show you what love is, because obviously someone who does this doesn't love you!!! Wake up and smell the coffee, give yourself more respect than that and get rid of him or else be miserable as you are now. It really isn't a hard decision if you think about it, and no he will not change!

Answer 3

It sounds like the relationship is one that works when it is convienent for him.

If he has left you for 4 times over the period of your relationship, I would not be surprised if he did it again.

You may want to think about moving on. There are plenty of fish in the sea (so to say).

Good luck and I hope you find the kind of relationship you want.

Answer 4

Go watch the movie CLICK.
You will see how you are waisting your life on something that is not worth it.
This guy is with you only when he is bored or something. You are obviously not that important to him.
How can you just sit there and wait for a low life like him.
It is time for you to love yourself a little more, kick him to the curb, and get yourself busy with something or someone that will enrich your life and bring you happiness and NOT stress!

Answer 5

i think u wasted 10 yrs of ur life to a loser. sure, he may have treated u so good when he was with u. but within given information, i think u were just a bootycall for him. it is said that it only takes a 3-year relationship for a person to fall in love with another person. (if u dated 3 yrs)
in 10 yrs, he still leaves u for his ex, then he doesn't love u ...so move on and meet a better person...

Answer 6

I think that He looks at U as a problem solver and a shoulder to cry on when he has nothing.He comes to U not b'coz he loves U but only when he needs U.U must check him that whether he'll be there if U need him.

Answer 7

I think that if he wanted you after ten years, he would have already given you the biggest diamond that he could afford. Piss on him. Find someone who wants you and I bet he will be chasing you down. He just needs to see you in a different light.

Answer 8

It's time to move on with your life. Harsh as it is life is passing you by and he's a loser. Do something for yourself and expand your horizon there is more to worry about than a guy that won't commit.

Answer 9

I think he is a worthless bum who is using you for sex. Get over it, and move on with your life, this dude cleary has no concept of committment and he is just taking you along for the ride. You deserve alot better, and I am sure you know that..move on hun...moveeee onnn

Answer 10

What a loser! He lives with his mother? He keeps going back to his X. There is a proverb: "Like a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly."

Dump this fool before you get covered in his vomit.