Im 20, I have a few enemies, and they talk **** behind my back, but won't say anything to my face. More than once, this has ruined my chances with a girl i had been trying to date(usually the **** they say is just to make fun of me or insult my character). I was a late bloomer(Didn't reach puberty til like 17)and i suppose you could call it napoleon complex, because i USED to be the small guy that everyone pushed around, and i never used to stick up for myself. Lately ive been in a few skimishes with some kids, and really been surprised by my own capabilities to crush peoples faces in(i was wrestler, i work out regularly with free weights and a 100lb bag.) Would it be worth my time to start fights with kids that have insulted my honor or my character back when i was "the little guy"?Is it a shame that i did nothing to stop these bullies earlier? I feel like its unjust, and a lot of the guys who used to be assholes to me are polite to me now(because they know ide stomp them.)
2006-06-25 17:43:18 · 7 answers · asked by Billy Boy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Standing up to a bully usually results in not being bullied anymore!
But if you become a bully , you are no better than them.
Plus, ultimately there will be someone who stands up to you and kicks your a s s.
2006-06-25 17:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by ☼Jims Brain☼ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're an adult now, so act like one. Don't go taking revenge for something that happened in the past. Get over it and move on. Fighting will just get you into trouble.
2006-06-26 00:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by animaginaryworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge fighting does nothing except cause more hatred and pain. Be a real man and have faith in your own character.
2006-06-26 00:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, because then people will write you off as crazy. What you do is get a really hott gf or do something big. Then they'll be eating crap. So just lay low.
2006-06-26 00:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by I Have A Question 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never,dude.
2006-06-26 00:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Dustin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge only hurts you! it shows lack of character, bullish behavior, poor judgment etc... these guys will have their own trials and tribulations to go through and you will cross their minds when their time comes. so no need to seek out vengeance.
2006-06-26 00:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by SHE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting does not accomplish anything at all
2006-06-26 00:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋