2006-06-25 17:37:25 · 20 answers · asked by john s 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
This superficial world is something we have created. And now unknowingly you yourself are contributing to it by feeling ugly and worrying about your looks! Who cares how you look my friend?!!...seriously no one except you. Everyone is neck deep in their own problems whatever it is! It is just your character that matters...a good character will shape your personailty...a good personlity will define the beauty of your features...Have a kind and helping heart...this will inturn bring smiles to millions of people around you...their smile will bring happiness to you which inturn will make you smile...when you smile from your heart your whole face will glow...it begins in the eye...when you have that sweet smile no one is going to notice whether you have a crooked nose or whether you are disformed or whether you are missing a ear or a nose or what is your complexion! Be happy always....be friendly and nice to everyone around you however bad they are to you...remember to fall in love...dont let your low self esteem stop you..All that you are going through is something which all of us go through in some phase of life. It is only normal! You will grow out of it! Dont dwell on it. No one is perfect...everyone has something special in them...concentrate on the specialities in you..what good you have in you for others than always thinking on a one sided mode. Got it!? Sooner or later soemone is going to walk into your life and even just that one person can make you feel like the most beautiful person in this world...which everyone is in their own ways! There is no time for regrets and worries in this world my friend...just go full steam and enjoy it fully! Go for it...with a BIIIG AND SWEEEET SMILE! What? no teeths? No worries...the smile begins in the eye! Good luck my beautiful or handsome friend! Good luck!
2006-06-25 18:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by aleandan 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No one is ugly - God doesn't make ugly.
No one truly likes the way they look. This is a natural feeling that you are experiencing. While the world as a whole may be superficial, you'll find that most people are not. Give people a chance to like you for you. Please don't try to copy what the so-called "beauty/fashion" magazines show. That is not the real world. Real people don't look like that. Real people are everyday people, people who make a difference in the world.
Please don't think of suicide (in any manner, shape, or form). Try thinking of it this way. In this world, we really only have one true person (besides our parents) who we can count on, and that's ourselves. Are you going to give up on yourself? When all else fails in this world - you'll still always have yourself.
Have a lovely rest of the evening....Bright Blessings....
2006-06-25 17:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Goblin g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Society has gotton so hooked on looks that no one seems to see any of the qualities that matter in a person. I know it can be hard I often wounder why god ripped me off on my looks, and theres an extreme amount of things about myself that I'd love to change, but I cant. There are so many things that you can do to change you look, and don't be so fast to give up. I know the feeling of being the ugly one. I've been there to often. Stay strong...be confident and smart,and that's all you'll ever truly need!
Good Luck!
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2006-06-25 17:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really thinking suicidal thoughts, call someone Right Now! You can find the number for suicide hotline in your phonebook. If necessary call 911. Why do you think you are ugly? You know this isn't really about your physical appearance. There are so many people who can help you - you need a professional not Yahoo answers. Talk to a school counselor, a therapist, someone at your church (many churches actually have staff who are licensed therapists), your local Behavior Health department.
2006-06-25 17:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like your very depressed. Everyone in this world no matter who it is has something special. Confidence comes from the inside of you. You don't have to follow any specific look. Just be yourself and if there is something particular you don't like about yourself try to improve it. Don't let other people or magazines, dictate how u look or judge you. Be happy with who you are. Have you ever heard the saying beauty comes from within? Well its true. I am sure there are somethings you like about yourself, focus on those things. Be your own person have confidence in yourself even if you feel no one else does!
2006-06-25 18:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by janei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand in front of the mirror 2 or 3 times a day and tell yourself how beautiful you are, be specific about the beauty, even if you don't believe it at first. Do this for 3 weeks and you will see a big difference in your looks.
2006-06-25 18:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mandalawind 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please DON'T hang yourself. Don't think that you are worthless if you do not look like a celebrity. I think you should find a hobby. Maybe you could read a book or magazine about a subject you are interested in. Turn your thoughts to interests outside of yourself. If you are in middle or high school (or even college) check out clubs like drama, art, music, or foreign languages to develop your talents. These things will boost your life in areas OTHER than your appearance. It will help you to find something fun to do and feel a sense of accomplishment. You may make friends as well!
2006-06-25 17:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by Rhonda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You can start positive self-talk to make yourself feel better. If you really feel that ugly, you may want to consider surgery just to boost your confidence. But if it's just a superficial thing, it's not worth going under the knife. Someday someone will see just how much more beautiful you are because you are unique.
2006-06-25 17:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by Susie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lots of people are ugly, that's no reason to hang yourself. Maybe you should try to help someone else, it will take your mind off yourself. And really, don't worry about it. No one really cares what you look like, because they have their own lives(not trying to be mean, but you know it's true) You need to get busy and stop worrying about something you can't change.
2006-06-25 17:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by jerrri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the feeling of ugliness is coming from the inside not the outside. You have to learn to accept yourself for who you are and love yourself. Takes alot of work and determination but its possible. I did it and it took me a long time but now im very happy.
2006-06-25 17:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋