probably nothing between you matches but you know that person loves you a lot, so would you love them back?
2006-06-25 17:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by rekha c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Depends really, but I think it's quite possible. Maybe not in an (eros, pronounced ER-ahs) (physical attraction) type of way. Quite possibily in an agape (pronounced a-GAH-pay) (unconditional love/highest form of love) way or maybe only really in a brotherly love or deep platonic love (friendship) way. It really depends on the person/situation, but I think it is very possible to have and feel a certain kind of love or deep fondness/care for someone that really loves you.
However, when nothing really matches it usually seems for the other person it could only really be in that deep caring or fondness way, but it still could be unconditional too. It really depends on the type of people/situation.
I'm actually experiencing this with somebody, where in six years, we had a love for each other, but it just didn't work, we are too different in so many areas. I've never really felt romantic love for him, but during some time, I have developed a deep fondness. That person is a helping friend in many ways (financially/health) and will always love me, but the relationship never has sustained much in a traditional romantic way for me. I've lacked those feelings in a big way, but have had moments of them in little ways. There is definitely notmuch at all in common with this person I've known six years, but I know this person loves me a whole lot and has wanted to help me. It's an unusual sustaining close relationship/friendship, but it just doesn't work in a traditional way (even though it seems that way to the outside world), other than in an agape/brotherly love way. It's unique and really is just a deep friendship.
So, maybe there could be love in regards to your question, but most likely different than the traditional romantic kind, but maybe love could grow or develop over time, but I doubt it will be the traditional romantic love.
Sorry! 'Didn't mean to write too long. 'Hope it helped though.
2006-06-25 18:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by sea dreams 1 · 6⤊ 2⤋
I think it's nice to know that someone loves you a lot---it makes you feel special. However--your own heart can only love who it loves....you can't make it love someone back. I think it depends on how they love you and express it and treat you whether you can love them back as passionately. You can learn to love anyone but truly, you cannot help who you fall in love with, it just happens.
2006-06-26 00:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by pmbrundle74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant love someone just because they love you. One needs to feel love for the other person, for whatever reason,,,if there IS one.
2006-06-26 00:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldnt love someone just because they love me because that is not what love is all about
2006-06-26 00:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by meckadance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes opposite poles attracts
2006-06-26 03:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there nothing harm to try to lov him. but if it doesnt work at least u hav try ur best.
dont hurt him/her. lov is a beauty thing
2006-06-26 00:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by kzzxguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you got to ask your self do i love him and if you do you do
2006-06-26 00:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋