i want myself to be liked by everyone,to be loved by evryone,i want people to enjoy my company, and i wanna have many friends,,,,,what should i do....pleae help
2006-06-25 17:10:53 · 22 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The most important person to love is yourself first. If you do that --others will be drawn to you. There is absolutely no way to please everyone. Just be passionate about what you do and who you are--so you attract people who are interested in you. Pleasing others sometimes takes away from your own spirit...your true essence and purpose in this world is not to be liked and loved by everyone, that is impossible. To like, love and know yourself and by that bring others to your light----is truly a content place. Good Luck!
2006-06-25 17:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by pmbrundle74 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I was just like you once. LISTEN to all the other ones who answered you. You have to be you. If you keeping looking for everyone to love you , you will never be satisfied. The #1 trick is do you even love yourself? It is the best solution.
How can you ask people to accept and love you if you don't even accept and love you? Many friends are not as important as one true, good friend. You are as good as the company you keep.
2006-06-26 00:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by MOI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but it is not possible to be liked by everyone. If you do whatever someone wants they will take advantage of you and still not like you. You are very lucky if you have a few good friend, some acquaintances you like and a number of people you can talk to or do things with. The everybody has to like me does not work.
2006-06-26 00:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look the first rule of life is that you don't have to "like" everyone and everyone will not like you. Get over that part now. The other rules are: do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Be kind, be there for the brokenhearted, be open and honest and you'll never be without a friend. Just be yourself. God gave you your own unique personality and He expects you to use it to the best of your ability.
2006-06-26 00:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be liked by everyone? There are mean and hateful people in this world and when one of them doesn't like me, I take it as a compliment. Try not to worry about being liked so much sweetie. If you're lucky enough to have family and a few friends that love you, you're doing great.
2006-06-26 00:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by tysmommy29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll.. I experimented with exactly what u said and yes.. here is my conclusion... all kinds of energies live in this world so if u try to befriend everyone, one or more of these things can happen:
1. u will loose urself.. what u were.
2. u will end up offending everyone when they see that u r a hypocrite(u will end up being one because of what I said earlier).
3. u will find some who like u.. some who don't.
but one thing is certain... u can't befriend everyone u know...
but yes whether to love them or not.. depends on you.
2006-06-26 00:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything to get friends.....True friends will accept you as their friends as who you are. I would say being like by friends is also beyond your control so just act natural as true friends will enjoy your company even though you are quiet and not even a joker. So you must get true friends not hypocrates.
2006-06-26 00:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself.
If you love or hate yourself others will believe you and respond to you in the same way.
Love others first. Be interested in people and listening to what they have to say.
Be genuine.
Stop worrying about being liked.
2006-06-26 00:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by Tavita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. That's all I can say. Everyone is different, and you are your own unique person. So just be the best yourself that you can be...Not EVERYONE will like you, but that's just how it is....Find friends who are alike, it might help
2006-06-26 00:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. That's all I can say. Everyone is different, and you are your own unique person. So just be the best yourself that you can be...Not EVERYONE will like you, but that's just how it is....Find friends who are alike, it might help.
2006-06-26 00:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by A7X_45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋