It said hey girl haven't talked to you in a while can you give me your # again because I lost it. I was pissed I asked him about it and he said she sent him a email and he doesn't know who she is. How can I find her profile to see what it looks like I don't have messenger and I tried the directory and it wouldn't show any thing up.
2006-06-25 17:08:14 · 16 answers · asked by michelecmof4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh my God! He sent an email to a female?!!!! THAT SCOUNDREL!!!
2006-06-25 17:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, "hey girl" usually implies a relationship, whatever that may be...It could just be an old school friend, a new acquaintance, or an old ex...who knows...
Everyone has an opinion, I just find it "odd" that you would ask for someone's # that you have no idea who it is.....
Open communication is the best route to go...If you go around being sneaky, then isn't it as bad as what he is doing?
Tell him how important it is for him to be honest with you...ask him about it again, give him an opportunity to possibly make a wrong, right...
Best wishes
2006-06-26 01:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm listen dear, what is sooooooooo bad on that?????
u know u need to give some space in a marriage too, and if u start to control his mails then its really not god at all. And if u start to argue or blame him for it, then its only getting worse.
But when u handle the situation open and talk to him easily about it, u will wonder how that will work on him. I mean does marriage mean that we have to give up our life totally????
As long u have a good relationship with your hb there is nothing wrong him talking to other women too. Also not on phone, and if u start to be jealousy it only makes him do so more. But if u take it easy and also doing the same ..... wow wow wow just watch and see. U know i nearly got divorced because of a similar situation, till i realized that its up to me on changing things. I know have four wonderful man contacts in net which i truly love and care for, and my hb knows them too, and he too has some mail women friends and even here some women friends. We both also have sms friends males and females. But as we talk about it its OK for both of us, and believe me if there will be more u will feel it immediately!!! As man then just behave sooooooooooo different hahahhah then u still can make a mess. But u will see as long he has no jealousy silly women at home, who makes a mess because of nothing actually, as long u have to fear nothing. U know to be married means not to posses the other person. Try to talk more open about such stuff. My hb comes daily home and tells me that he so a wonderful women and what he talked about, and i do the same when i meet a great man. And it somehow intensives our trust to each other, and also makes us feel good and more aware of each others, not to take each other for granted. So stay positive and think about it.
i wish u all the best for the future.
2006-06-26 02:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ayrun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, looking at it from the outside, it looks as if he has been talking to a girl...........they can't be too serious yet, or he would have her number in his memory, etc. and if it had been a longer relationship with sex, etc. they would have said different things to each other.
The problem is your husband. He lied about it.Why? He obviously lied and does know her and didn't mind lying to you about it. Her address and all of that info really doesn't matter .You already know he lied and that is serious.
2006-06-26 05:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
typical for everyone to assume that it's the girls fault. The one that should be approached is your husband. First he sends the email and then when confronted he lies to your face. Confront your husband again and don't back down until he promises to tell you the whole truth.
2006-06-26 01:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by empowered2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be pissed! If he asked for her number, he had some not very good intentions. If you can get into his email, then send her a messge back pretending to be your husband and get some details.
2006-06-26 00:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try looking her address up in a yahoo search in quotes, or write to her yourself and ask what's up. She may not know he's involved and may tell you what's going on. It sounds like he knows her quite well. "hey girl" is usually reserved for people you're friendly with imo.
2006-06-26 00:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so agree with Blondie!! It sounds shady to me what he is doing ,especially after what he said in the email, something is not right. Good luck girl!!
2006-06-26 00:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by Michele S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something smells FISHY!! How can he ask for her #, and at the same time tell you he doesn't know who she is? He evidently is not a very good liar!! Tell him you are too good for him, and think about what else he may be lying to you about.
2006-06-26 00:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by toohot4you1971 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a spy program to monitor him and confront him with the proof later.
2006-06-26 00:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by wisehahn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her an email (from his email) and see what kind of response you get.
2006-06-26 00:13:59 · answer #11 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋