I have a friend that I've gone out with once, but I didn't like her that much she was 2-3 years younger than I'm and she is the hyper type of gal. So, I talked things with her..and we are friends but lately she keeps on calling me and talking to me about how she is bored, asking me what I'm doing next week and or the day after, and she keeps calling me hour after hour..I'm going out of excuses for hanging up..and I don't want to just tell to shut up...So can someone .help me please..? uhh....there she is again..
2006-06-25 16:53:09 · 25 answers · asked by ja y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Change your number...dummy!
2006-06-25 16:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mistake was to be friends with her. Why, if you didn't like her and she was that much younger than you . She sounds like she is going to let go that easily. She obviously doesn't get the hint that you have no interest in her.
Your are going to have to be brutally honest with her and tell her you no longer want to continue this friendship. Friends don't keep calling hour after hour. That to me is stalking. Anyway, if your talk doesn't go well, you might want to contact your phone company and put a block on her number. If that doesn't work, change your number completely.
2006-07-07 15:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by allyp51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once again, you are someone who is confusing a friend with an acquaintance. This girl is not you friend. You just need to tell her (just one time) that you don't want to pursue a friendship with her, and every time she calls just hang up. Don't get into a conversation with her and don't try to explain anything to her. Just hang up, she will eventually get the message. This is a girl that has to be hit over the head, it's obvious that she can't take a hint.
2006-07-05 14:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by riddletricia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take charge of the situation. Be direct but polite, firm but kind. She's obviously calling you because she thinks it's OK to do so. You need to set a boundary with her. Let her know that it's OK to call sometimes but not all the time. Tell her you feel smothered and that you'd like to spend time with her and talk to her but just not quite so much. Unless, of course, you just don't want her in your life, then I would recommend you telling her as much.
2006-07-09 16:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by writerboy69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know friends do social things together, right?
If you want no further contact with this girl you should never have told her that you wanted to be friends.
Also, just tell her that you are busy and can't answer the phone all the time. Tell her you want to talk to her, but you don't want to talk to her every five minutes. If you want continued relations, just set boundaries and follow through with them. If she is your friend you should be able to communicate with her.
2006-06-25 17:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by medusaswrath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are going to have to let her know not to talk to you at all hours, because if she does not know that there is a problem then she will not stop.
maybe you can tell her to call you on specific days of the week/times of the day
good luck
2006-07-06 19:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, take your balls out of the drawer and use them like a man. This chick is not for you so tell her you don't have any intention of dating her again and will not answer anymore of her calls. Be honest. Do the right thing.
2006-06-25 16:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man up and tell her the truth! But in a nice way... if she keeps calling you, don't make up a lame excuse, just tell her that YOU will call her when you're not busy.
2006-07-09 04:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by gwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask properly
block phone calls
else you call and talk to your friend ... a day would be perfect...
for sure there are no more topics to duscuss...
else she has problems...
from the way you said it... it may be mental problem...
one thing to get rid of this is to buy a a STICKY NOTE
OR A CALENDAR... i pays a little ... but do much ...
to get rid of calling... well ... have a voice mail recorder (or what do you call it abroad?)...
WHATEVER!!! < ) hehehe...
so you don't have to pick up the phone each time she calls...
divert her call... etc...
else...
scream!!! shout "i want a psychiatrist !! " < ) hehehehe
2006-07-06 21:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by john_frank_evangelista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually ja!! u really cant speak to girl directly to stop her caliing bcoz girls are bit emotional so i would suggest u to tell her that u are in a busy project work....so when she calls tell her this excuse da,,,then later she will call u but be more concerned on ur project work and will reduce her talk time.....
continue this da... then slowlyy the calls will be reduced
try this pal!!
2006-07-09 08:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that if she wants to be friends with you then she needs to stop calling you all of the time. Tell her that she is scaring you away as a friend and if she doesn't stop then you and her just cant be friends.
2006-06-25 16:57:19 · answer #11 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋