We were walking somewhere and I got in a verbal spat with two people being rude to me. He laughed and told me it was "classic" that I confronted them (making it sound like I lost my "I don't take crap from people mentality"......But then when I ask, he says I was a little bit of out line, but they were more. Then he said he got the feeling they were jerks even before I said anything and was glad I did. Any clues why he's laughing then getting serious, then contradicting himself over such actions and wanting to tell our other friends about it?
2006-06-25 16:51:58 · 10 answers · asked by Ari 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Haven't we all been there? You do something, a friend takes you to task for it. Your first reaction is to defend yourself. After you have a bit of tiime to think about you realize you were off base. After a little more time to to consider it in depth, you realize you were way out of line. Normal part of human nature.
2006-06-25 16:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is saying that it was kinda funny, "classic". But that maybe you also went a little over bard. It is possible that you did both. I have done that before. Once I totally told someone off and my friends were all like "oh, that was so bad ***!" but at the same time, they were like "maybe you were a little harsh on them". Don't worry too much about what they think. The important thing is that you handled your self and didn't let someone walk on you.
2006-06-25 16:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a hypocrit but at the same time he's trying to tell you he doens like conflict but would rather talk behind someones back.
2006-06-25 16:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by MiLk*MAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good on you for sticking up for yourself your friend is just jelous he doesnt have the guts to do it himself. dont take crap from people theres some nasty ones out there
2006-06-25 16:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is reading you and trying to say what he thinks you want to hear. Lighten up a little .
2006-06-25 16:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he was shook up by the experience and was jabbering in shock.
2006-06-25 16:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you've self assurance you're extra virtuous than others, you're ignorant of what you want to artwork on and concentrate on their weaknesses. that's what judgment does. we are all doing the perfect we can with what all of us understand.
2016-11-15 06:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both lack social skills.
This will improve as you grow older... and hopefully wiser.
2006-06-25 16:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try looking at 2 headed snake.... you friend???
2006-06-25 16:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-25 16:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋