2006-06-25 16:44:53 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Plenty of fat girls get boyfriends. Often it has to do with personality. If you don't like yourself, it's hard for other people to like you too. You just need to be yourself, and not worry about it too much. You will find someone when the time is right. You just need to go to plenty of social settings and talk and have fun. If you really feel poorly about yourself, try to eat healthy and get out and move, walk, swim, anything to move your body.
2006-06-25 16:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by Evilest_Wendy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys like skinny, fit girls. Some guys do like fat girls. After all, fat girls have somethings that most guys like....big butts and boobs. Chances are you have some nice cleavage...far, far, far more then a skinny fit girl(who has to stuff her bra and get thoes padded ones)...so show it off. Go get some nice clothing that shows off what you have.....guy will look.
You might want to get it out of your mind that you only want skinny, fit guys too....as they are they type going out with thoes skinny, fit girls(trust me, as a fat guy thoes girls will not even give me the time of day). So go for the fatter guys, they need love too.
Just look around, it's not like every fat girl in the world is single...millions have Bf and husbands....so that should tell you something about what guys like...
2006-06-25 23:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am fat and have never had a problem getting men. I think it's all about who you are. If you beleive you are sexy, others will also. I think I am a big sexy diva, therefore I am! I dress modern with clothes from Lane Bryant, The Avenue and Ashley Stewart. I wear a size 20 now. I have been down to a size 10 and I didn't feel like myself. I love being how I am!
2006-06-25 23:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy can't like you for who you are then screw them, you don't need them. Not all guys are like this though. I hate that mentality about guys though, they have to have the prettiest, skinniest girls, but what they get on the outside of that girl in more than likely completely different then whats on the inside. more than likely the skinny pretty girl is a snobby stuck up *****. if that's the kinda girl typical guys go with then try looking for the not so typical guy. outside appearances on people are not the most important thing. good luck and i have faith that you will get boyfriend and he will like you for who you are. never try to be something you aren't, it never works
2006-06-25 23:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by pebbles68701 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it not true that guys dont like larger women. there are some out there that dont want to feel like they will break you if they hug you tight. you just aren't looking in the right places hun.
it also helps if you have self confience, and it doesn't seem like you do due to your question. other ppl can pick up on this - if you aren't confident, and dont think a lot of yourself - then they may not give you a chance to get to know one another.
you need to be able to love yourself - before asking someone else to do it.
2006-06-25 23:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by firehd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have confidence in yourself and stop telling yourself that you are fat. Guys like girls with high self esteem. Once you have that then youll find a guy. There are guys out there that like girls who have more to love.
2006-06-25 23:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you can get a bf if you just learn to love yourself the way you are. Guys love a confident woman who knows that there is more to a girl than her weight. Though there are jerks who just like a girl who looks like a barbie doll. It doesn't matter they don't deserve you.
2006-06-25 23:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by peacekindnessfaith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy about yourself, do something about it.
If you are happy about yourself, other people will notice and you'll end up attracting just the right guy for you.
The key is being happy with what and who you are, the rest will just happen!
2006-06-25 23:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by MarQus1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get in shape in a way that satifies yourself. Theres somebody out there for everyone.
2006-06-25 23:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by DiRtAlLtHeWaY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys like skinny gurls, like I dont really care what they look like as long as they have a pretty smile.
2006-06-25 23:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋