i love god.... well i think i do i say if there really is a god then why do he make us hurt so much. If there is a god and if he loves me the way people say he do then why did god take all i had. I only had my father and my boy friend, and he took them. At first when he took my father i had started not 2 believe in him but he sent me my love and after that i had a change of heart,that made me say he really do love me because i felt like he restored my heart, but when he came right back and took him i feel like i lose my love 4 god
2006-06-25 16:13:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wifey, Yes God does love you even though you don't believe he does. He did not take your boyfriend or Father away from you. God has a plan for everyone and we all have our time to go and nothing will stop it. God knows exactly when we will die even before we are born. He has plans for you also and one day you will know why. I am sorry for your loss and right now you are grieving and your thinking process is not where it should be. I have lost a love one and I know what your going through. You go through so many things that at times you will think your crazy and believe me your not, just the normal process of grieving. May God hold you close to him just as he did me when I was going through it.
2006-06-25 16:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 1⤋
God is an easy target for many people because there are times when there is no one to blame. Sometimes we loose people we love without death playing a part.
Everything happens for a reason. Seldom are those reasons understood. One day you will know those reasons.
Look at what God put His son through.
The world is past the point of any return. Your faith will bring you where you need to be.
You were fortunate to feel the love you felt more than once, some people never get that chance.
God Bless
2006-06-26 02:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Nick R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l Don"t Think God Took Any One From You I Don"t Think He Try"s To Hurt Any One Are Time Here With Each Other Is Numbered We Shouldn't Look Back An Blame Any One We Should Look back And Remember The Time We Had With Them The Good Time"s We shared That Would Make You Feel Closer To The Ones You Love !!!!!Good Luck I Hope You Fined Peace Soon.
2006-06-26 00:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by 66hamerheadPD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We live by faith - not by feelings or circumstances that come into our life. God is a God for all - all races, all seasons, all aspects of our lives. He will NEVER leave you or forsake you. Sometimes He can feel distant or far away. He asks us to TRUST him and lean not unto our own understanding. I lost by precious beloved father 10 years ago. It still hurts - but I also thank God for the wonderful years I did have with him and for sending my precious daddy into my life. I also am extremely thankful that God took him home finally free of pain. Don't question God....just trust. If you read the Bible and develop a personal relationship with God He will help you through the tough times in your life. I'm praying for you!
2006-06-25 23:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by yogi bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok just because you lost your father and boyfriend, my apologies for both, does not mean that god does not love you. God tests his believers, he tests their faith. Do not lose your faith over pain, if anything the lord will comfort you in this time, if you believe in the lord you will never be alone. You always have god, through thick and thin he is there listening to your prayers. Just pray and I promise you will feel better.
2006-06-25 23:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But God still believes in you. He brings people into and out of our lives for reasons we are not to understand. Someday you will have this revealed to you. We are all woven into each other's lives at different times for a reason. Don't give up just because it's difficult and doesn't make sense to you. God knows what He is doing. Keep praying.
2006-06-25 23:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God tests all of us. But if you truly believe, have faith and he will show you awesome things. I am truly sorry for your losses. I also lost my father(2000) and my brother(2004) and more recently a beloved nephew(2005) at 17y/o. I still have my struggles with my faith at times. But its at those times that he shows me I'm not alone. Prayer works. Be blessed my sister
2006-06-26 00:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by Vanessa W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your losses. At one time or another we all question our faith. Have you thought about going to therapy? It can be a big help. I am not the person to help you get your faith back if that is what you want. Only you can do that for you. I wish you SOOO much luck. I'll be thinking about you, take care.
2006-06-25 23:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God does things for His own rules...
questioning Him is just normal...
try reading Purpose Driven Life for some insight
2006-06-25 23:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God answers all of prayers, just not the way we want Him to.
I have lost many loved ones, but that does not mean God does not exist. It does mean I do not understand His plan.
May God bless you & hold you close.
2006-06-25 23:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by Wolfpacker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋