If you were with some one and they were severely disfigured by an accident, disease or what ever would you stay with them? And if you did would you just be doing it out of guilt? Could you be sexualy active with some one you were no longer atracted to? Do you think that if you are really in love that it woudn't matter or is that just a buch of crock??
2006-06-25 16:09:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's not about weather you love them, it is about could you be with some one you couldn't stand to look at
2006-06-25 16:14:04 · update #1
maybe I can get an answere from a guy??
2006-06-25 16:30:09 · update #2
Actually it is a matter of how much you love them because if you really did before the accident or whatever then you would still love them for everything else and looks shouldn't be that important. I'm not saying that they aren't important but you should be able to look past it because of everything else. If you can't then that obviously means that you didn't love them in the first place and you were only into them for their looks. About being sexually active with them out of guilt... you should never be with someone out of guilt it should be because you love them for their personality and everything else they have to offer. And if you were just sexually active with them for their looks in the first place then I think that says something about the kind of person you are.
2006-06-25 16:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband was to get in a accident and be disfiquired or lose a leg or arm, I would still love him unconditionally. I didnt marry him cuz of his looks I married him cuz of his big heart. So in my own opionion no I wouldnt leave him or stop loving him. I would still be sexually active with him and no I wouldnt never stay out of quilt. For better or worse. Im in it to the end
2006-06-25 23:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have the mental attraction as well as the physical attraction sweetie, and if this were to ever happen to my husband I would stand by him110% I am sure that it really depends on the level of your relationship. I would not stay out of guilt, I would do it out of love.
2006-06-26 01:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by slf620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just because something happens to them doesnt mean they arent the same person i think i would still love them but as to weather or not i could have sex with them i would hope so but it would all depend i guess
2006-06-25 23:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love them they are beautiful no matter what.love is blind to looks it only see's what it wants.that's the way love was designed a good thing too.other wise only good looking people would find love.beauty is only skin deep love see's beyond that
2006-06-25 23:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by SABRINA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love some one you not in it for the looks. Also rember its a two way st.
2006-06-25 23:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jeanette Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love trumps looks!
2006-06-25 23:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfpacker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course, if i was in a relationship with them before, im not going to be so shallow as to back out just because of their looks changing
2006-06-25 23:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by zombie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly don't know how to answer. i love my wife but if that happened i wouldn't know what to do. I say yes i satay with her but if that situation arises i wouldn't know what could happen
2006-06-26 01:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by chrislmcsherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a moral issue... i dont Know how i would feel, or what i would do... i hope i would still love them, no matter what
2006-06-25 23:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋