I'm 18 and I just had a baby about four mo. ago, how do I tell my mom I'm pregnant yet again?

Question

When I told my mom I was pregnant the first time she took it pretty hard becuase I waited to tell her. I'm probaby only a few weeks pregnant now and I want to tell her as soon as possible.

Answer 1

If you're adult enough to get pregnant again, you're adult enough to tell her.

Answer 2

That depends, are you still living at home with your mom? If so, she may kick you and your child out. Both my parents took my pregnancies pretty well. I got pregnant with my first at 17 and with my second at 18. I didn't live at home though. I was already living with my fiance. We've never used assistance or had our parents to provide for our children. My fiance works all the time to take care of us until I go back to work in a few weeks. It's always been he and I working or just him. Both my parents love my kids more than anything. They're spoiled rotten by grandma and grandpa. If you can't take care of the child you have now financially, she'll probably be really upset. It's just one of those things that no one can tell you because we don't know your whole situation.

Answer 3

I think you are worrying about the wrong thing. How to tell your mom should be less important to you than how you are going to support your two children! You need to make a plan for taking total responsibility and growing up yourself. THEN,. tell your mom you are pregnant AND you have a plan. If you need help with that plan, talk to a counselor at church, a local clinic, Planned Parenthood, etc. Who is the father of these children? He needs a plan, too, and he needs to pay child support. Go get a court order for that.

Answer 4

This is a good example why Jesus wants us to be married before we have sex. Are you married? You do not even mention father. Are these children fathered by the same father? Do you love the father? How about getting married if you are not? If that is an option for you, tell that first. I think you need to tell your mom soon, especially if you are not married. If you are married, what about if you both tell her. And, there is a slight change that you are not actually married, your hormones are playing tricks at that time. Are you still breast feeding? Pray for wisdom. You mother will love no matter what. So does God.

Answer 5

You tell her like you told her the first time. She will not be pleased so prepare yourself for a very unpleasant reaction.

Why did you not learn your lesson the first time? What is so hard about using birth control and practicing safe sex????

You need to look hard at yourself and find out why you are being so self-destructive.

Answer 6

Well if you already had a baby your mom should understand that you are mature enough to handle a child. But be careful what you do because a friendship with your mom is very important as you grow up!

Answer 7

Yeah, I can see why your mom is so upset, why would you go off and get pregnant again? Are you with the same guy?

Answer 8

She is your mother and no mother would kick her daughter out at a time that is so critical...u should just tell her and don't be scared . Your mother will always be there 4 u no matter what.

Answer 9

youre a legal adult so your mom shouldnt be to shocked that u are preg but then again twice in 4 months wow

Answer 10

i think that you should just tell her. she's an adult and has already been in that situation with you once, so i think she would handle it pretty well. she deserves to know as soon as possible. she may want to help you through it.

Answer 11

girl at 18 you should be having fun not baby-sitting. stay protected. just tell her right now, i mean shes going to find out anyways right.