I've had 3 gf's this past 7th grade year, but yet every time some girl interferes cause her best friend or whoever is goin out wit me they get really mad and try to break us up, and then when you want to go out with someone, they always talk trash on you???? why is that?
i've been single for 4 1/2 months, i'm not puttin up with this stuff, any girlz out there????
2006-06-25 15:50:48 · 28 answers · asked by armyfreak35 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Dude.. grow up.. dating isn't about jumping into something. You need to find out what kind of girl you want. Then let her come to you. If she likes you for who you are, that's the most important thing.
2006-06-25 15:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by knifelvr 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend. You don't need a girlfriend right now. Wait until high school. Some people think that they need a boyfriend or girlfriend because all of their friends have one and they get jealous to try and split people up because they can't find a boyfriend or girlfriend. So what if you've been single for 4 1/2 months. I've been single for 20 friggin years. Get over it and realize that there is more to life than having a girlfriend.
2006-06-26 01:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 14 yr old girl, and I can tell you that a lot of girls at my age are brutal. What you need to do is just ignore them. They do that about everyone they can. For whatever reason, they enjoy it. Is there some law saying that you have to date? There's nothing wrong with being single. Get girl friends. Don't look for girlfriends. If you find the right one, ok, go for her. But take your time. Get to know her. Don't go rushing into it. Can you honestly say that rushing into the relationships has made you or your gfs happy? Just chill a bit and take it easy. If you ever need more help understanding girls send me a message lol.
2006-06-26 03:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by heartbroken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down, studmuffin, you've got time.
So as I understand it, you've just gotten out of seventh grade and during the year you've had three girlfriends. Do I have that right?
Well, I think you're doing very well, just the thing you should be doing at this age. I mean, you don't think you'll end up married to a girl you met when you were thirteen, do you?
This time of your life and about the next ten years are about getting to know a lot of girls so that you can figure out what kind of girls you really like. Do you like talkative girls or quiet ones, girls who like parties or girls who like smaller groups? How important is a sense of humor to you? How important is how the girl looks to you?
You can forget about all of the drama and gossip that the girls' friends do; if you are a decent guy you'll get a repuration for being a decent guy and as the girls you know get older they will depend more on their opinion of guys and less on their friends' opinions.
So slow down and enjoy the good times you have ahead of you.
Oh, and by the way, since you're going to have a lot of girlfriends, you want to make sure you're not getting too intimate with them too fast. You are valuable, not something to throw around to everyone.
Good luck.
2006-06-25 22:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by LC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 13 grow up some more. dont worry about girls. You will find the right girl for you someday. It doesnt have to be right now.
I am 27 and I had my first serious relationship in middle school. From 6th-10th grade. Same guy, he broke my heart yes, to this day we are still bestfriends. Though we have gone our spereate ways.
I married my high school crush and we have been togethersince 97 married almost 9 years andhave 3 kids.
So u will findlove,butnot right now. Take your time, explore. Dont rush into a serious thing right now your still young.
2006-06-25 23:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl_0242002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dating the opposite of what u were dating before,and before u start dating get to know each other,so u know what the person and there friends r like and if it's not what u want it's just a friend so ur not tied down,eventually you'll find someone.I'm not like that and yeah there r girls out there!good luck
2006-06-25 22:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me put it simple, THEIR JR. HIGH LADIES! What else do you expect? lol But don't give up yet. You still have all through 8th, High School and Collage! You look pretty hott from your avatar so IM me sometime. (I'm 14 already and will be going into High School)
2006-07-02 18:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls can be evil! they like the drama, nothing else 2 do. dont take anything 2 seriously though, i am 13 too and you have a long time to find a gurl u really love, and is hopefully not a drama queen!!!
2006-06-26 02:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by :))) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young to be worried about having a relationship let a lone a serious one. Enjoy being a kid and doing things that make YOU happy. There is plenty of time for girls and relationships later
2006-06-25 22:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by mrs.moogie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi im 13 and will be 14 in 3 months 2 if u want to talk to contact me on yahoo or if u have a aim u can im me on ilovezach5455 or youandmexo69 or on my space if u have one or if u want to cheack mine out http://www.myspace.com/zachandchrystalforever
2006-06-26 19:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋