My boyfriend whom I've never had any problems with, and we also have been living together for the past 6months decided not to come home on thursday after work, nor did he call. He stated that he went over to his best friend house and played chess, had a couple of drinks and fell asleep. Friday came we talk, I forgave him only because he has never done that, and he has given me no reason not to trust him. So that night while in the middle of making love, his phone rings at 3:15 am. He answer the phone in a low tone. He talked to the female that called . I asked him who was that and why did'nt he tell that person that it was rude to call at 3:15am. He did'nt respone . So I decided to redial the number, the female stated that she was a friend from work and she went to a club and charles wanted her to call to tell him that she ok! I was pissed and said nasty words to her. He stated that I was wrong and that I was being an *** and over reacting! What do you think! Cheating or Not?
2006-06-25 15:39:49 · 9 answers · asked by ann d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My gut instinct would say cheating. She had no business calling at 3:15 in the morning.
2006-06-25 15:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to tell you but he is cheating on you. Just think a bout it, why would a female call a guy at 3:15 in the morning. No females shoul be calling your man unless it is family. Its time to let him go and for you to move on and find a guy that will treat you better.
2006-06-26 00:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did the buddy say he was doing? does it make sense for him to be playing chess?
Why did he have her call him?
On one side, he could have been cheating, but this dosen't sound like he actually did... This sounds more like he was trying to make sure a friend at work got home safely because guys at clubs are not that safe... and I have done that to my friends that I know "ask" for trouble when they go out....
The only thing I might have gotten mad at him for was that he went over to his best friend's house and din't call you... But then did you call to see where he was?
Probably have to forgie him and say sorry... I would get more information before I accused him of cheating...
2006-06-25 22:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His Cheating! I know I'm guy why would girl call him at 3:15 in the morning. try puting your self in the girl's position and asking this to your self "Why would I call Guy at 3:15 am.?"
2006-06-25 22:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Speed Freak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case, I think he is cheating, no casusal friend will call someone at 3:15am and charles is the one told her to call him in the first place.
2006-06-25 22:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by jackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that wouldve hapened to me then I would expect him to be cheating. Shouldnt no female call your man phone at 3:15 a.m. especially if they know he has a girlfriend.
2006-06-25 22:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Princess P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating! Sorry.
2006-06-25 22:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by trying to help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I have to go with cheating.
2006-06-25 22:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's cheating...give him the boot..head to the dr to get checked
2006-06-25 22:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Ronnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋