ive just got out of a relationship...and i loved the person with everything...and i still feel that love that i have for them...but its over now...and now everysday since we broke up...ive been thinking about them...wishing they were with me...that i was with them...what should i do to make the feelings and thoughts....STOP.
2006-06-25 15:09:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it takes time especially if youve been with the person for a long time it feels really stange at first but it gets better believe me. when i split up from my ex even tho i was the one that finished it, it still hurt for ages. i used to go out with my friends try not to spend to much time alone. be strong and happy u never know what the future holds
2006-06-25 21:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are feeling is normal and you will get over it,it doesn't magically disappear overnight, but you will get over it and it will just take some time. A broken heart always mends and is capable of loving again. The best way to get over a painful relationship is to divert yourself and keep yourself busy. Take up an activity or take a class or course you're interested in where you can meet new people, go hang out with friends, work out, take care of yourself, rent a lot of FUNNY movies, go to a comedy club, spend time with people who didn't get a chance to spend time with when you were in a relationship, get a second or new job, etc. Do anything that's constructive and won't hurt you. Some people drown themselves in alcohol or drugs or work to get over a relationship- that's what I meant by hurting themselves. You get the picture.
2006-06-25 15:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by choosinghappiness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that maybe the best thing to do is to think back to why it didn't work out the first time and how there are millions of people in the world about three years ago i got out of a bad relationship and sometimes i still wish that we were together i guess there are just some people you never get over but trust me if you hang in there you will find a great guy i did :) and even though every now and then i think back to how it used to be there is no way that i would go back to him......... trust me it will get easier with time............ good luck
2006-06-25 15:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by chasity:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will definitely take some time. the yearning for that person to come back won't go away instantly. if it was your first love, you'll never get over them. but all you can do is wait for the pain to stop or for someone better to come along. watch a movie where someone breaks up with someone they really love and in the end they find someone new and better and they live "happily ever after". it should help bring you a little hope. but give it a while. you'll feel better in no time.
2006-06-25 15:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself it is a new beginning. Forget thinking of any men for now and concentrate on female friends, music and movies, and possibly shopping if you enjoy it like me and making yourself really looking good. Feel something good about yourself just for you not for anybody else. Once your mind is focused on other things, you wont even know it, you will have forgetten about the affection you had with him and when you meet him you will take him as just a friend and you wont feel much more for him. then you can move on to other guys.
2006-06-25 21:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet someone else,its the only way that you will forget about them,but if you did really love this person then they will always be in your heart only time will let you get over them,but you never forget real love.
2006-06-25 22:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully they 're good memories and you should treasure them as they are part of life. keep them to blot out the bad times cause if you dwell on these you will end up resentful and bitter.
think of the number of thorns on a rose stem and you will only see the beauty of the rose.
2006-06-25 15:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by michaelnangle2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a cliche but time is all u need the pain will never go away completely but it eases good luck all the best
2006-06-26 02:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by browneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whwn u find the answere let me know ok i going through a break up to
2006-06-25 15:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by sassyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get back out there, you hot thing! move on to the next chapter
2006-06-25 21:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah in Makati 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋