I feel sorry for my friend ,but I want her to move on with her life and get real.and know that is allright to express feelings to someone they know they care without overwealming them all the time..by using manipulation
2006-06-25 14:51:41 · 12 answers · asked by Canela 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Pretty Lady, you are surrounded with some issues it appears. You know, you can only say and do so much for your friend. You can offer encouragement and support, advice and even recommend some counseling if it's that bad. But you can't continue putting yourself in other people's negative shoes. Don't you know you can be affected by it? Next thing you know, you'll be full of the same venom. Get some self-help books for her; invite her to places where she has to meet people and learn to depend upon herself. You will have to eventually let go if she continues. She's got to "man up" sooner or later. You can still be her friend - but it might have to be "from a distance".
2006-06-25 14:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you need to help her to find positive things for her if she is going through a hard time shine the light on some good times if she wants to talk just about that all the time then tell her lets talk about blah blah blah just to get her mind off of things If she is a true friend stay supportive and she will be overr this crap soon enough
2006-06-25 21:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by jdhoggiebuns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that what u r now going through is not easy.
So if at any time u should need a shoulder to lean on
or just someone who'll listen,
Just call / sms / mail
Ajay Mehra at 30427171, 9310057171,
care@connaughtplace.com
And u know that I'll always b there
2006-06-27 01:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by ajay mehra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her some self-help books or point her in the direction of an individual councillor ...cause if you don't...you'll be the one getting overwhelmed...and emotionally hurt out of this situation.
2006-06-25 22:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Hornyus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You KNOW friends want the best for their friends, however we must remember that she will have to say ENOUGH is ENOUGH. Just continue to be her friend and pray for her.
2006-06-25 21:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by RONNIEKAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yahh, you're so right!!! you should face her, though... Tell her what you wnt her to know... Go on!!! dont hesitate... im sure that what you're gonna do will help her a lot!!! God bless!!!
2006-06-25 21:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by jana(^-^) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure to tell her how much you despise people that are sucking up to others.
2006-06-25 21:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by ganja_claus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what is wrong that see if you can help.
2006-06-25 21:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Amber H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant help someone unless they want to be helped.
2006-06-25 21:55:39 · answer #9 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE A LITTLE MORE SPECIFIC ABOUT THE SITUATION. THIS QUESTION ISNT COMPLETED.
2006-06-25 21:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋