I want to have sex so bad but I'm afraid of getting pregnant... What should I do?

Question

Well besides getting pregnant I would like to be a virgin when I get to marriage, but I want to have sex really bad and another problem is that I'm to young and I wouldn't like to get pregnant... What should I do?

Answer 1

i know you don't want to hear this but you really shouldnt do it, i wish somebody would've told me this before but you will cry so many nights with regret, you can never take it back, plus once you have it you'll constantly want it 10 times more

Answer 2

Sex toys will ease that ache for so long. When you realize taht your toys arent doign anything, go on the Pill and then when you do have sex use condoms. While that will prevent you from getting pregnant almost 100 percent, it wont necessarily stop an STD. If you are old enough to be thinking about having sex then you need to think about this too. STD's are easier to get than you think. Don't think that it wont happen to you. Herpes and HPV take about 6 months to a year to show signs of it, HIV takes anywhere from 2 months to 20 years. Chlamydia and gonorrhea show up within a week to a month and the symptoms might be so miniscule that you might not even know that you have it. HPV can cause cervical cancer. Educate yourself on STD's before you have sex and I gurantee that the knowledge you gain will hold you back from sex even longer. You will think about what would happen if you got an STD. And STD's can be passed along to the child when the mother gives birth, if the mother has something. Best of Luck.

Answer 3

If you really want to have sex, and you are in a mature and settled relationship, and you feel that the person you are with feels exactly the same way you do about the situation, and you are in love, then it is your decision. If you are afraid about getting pregnant, then go on the Pill and use spermicidal condoms in addition. This will strongly weaken your chance of getting pregnant. However, if you feel like you can wait until you get married, then wait! It really depends on your situation and how you feel about the person you are with. Just be smart and dont do anything rash.

Answer 4

Well, consider that being a virgin is a gift. I can respect that you want to save your virginity until you get married. Keep in mind that being a virgin is only a one time gift and it should only be given to a special person...meaning your husband whom you really do love. The feeling is natural to want to have sex at a young age, but keep in mind that there are over 33 thousand STDs out in this world today. That number is scary, isn't it? Also keep in mind that 1 in 4 people have HIV/AIDS, and they do not even know it. Those two statistics are scary enough, and they should be proof that you do want to have sex. NOT just yet. It is better to be safe than sorry.

Answer 5

This is a very major decision! It should not be taken lightly at all. Do not give in to peer pressure. You can have sex only one time and get pregnant. If you do decide to have sex one day, at least let it be with someone that you love and that you are in a long term relationship with. There is no guarantee that you will end up married to him.Be ready to face that. If you do decide to have sex, get plenty of information at first, and make sure to use protection or at least get on birth control. I would recommend going to the health unit, or maybe taking to your family, but I don't know how easy it is to talk to them.

Answer 6

you need to wait until your ready..it hurts really bad and it not all people make it out to be. I got pg at 18 and was lucky enuf to marry the father. Make sure when you are ready to have sex.. ask yourself .. would this guy make a good father??? because you can get pg its very easy. I suggest you go to the gyno ..or the clinic they will give u the pill. But if a guy doesnt want to wait for you then he isnt the one .. or you will regret it when you get older.. you have your whole life to have sex.. believe me ... when your married you can do it everyday. Just imagine getting pg and living with your parents forever that sucks, it take a long time to get on your feet, get an education and then find a man.. good luck to ya and if you find temptation you can always use your B.O.B

Answer 7

Well friend I think you no the answer to your own question. You say you want to be a virgin when you get married, You don't want to get pregnant, you know that you are too young. You have basically answered your own question, i think you are looking for someone to tell you go ahead your not going to get pregnant, have fun. Your definitely not going to get it here. Listen to yourself, you are the only one who can tell you what to do in this situation.
Good Luck friend,
Do what you feel is right, not what other people say is right.

Answer 8

I don' t want to soud like a a-s-s hole but if you are ready thats your decision. Personally i don't use condoms, because to me they take the love out of every thing. To me condoms say your just someone i'm sleeping with. If you decide not to use a condom do nto let your boyfriend or what ever come. Thats the last thing you wan't

Answer 9

As the other just told you, learn how to masturbate and do it! This will not only help you release the tension, but also learn you how to make love, what are your turn-ons, the right spoths, a.s.o. You'll get a much satisfying experience, when the right time will come, with your man.

Answer 10

U can have a safe sex,before having sex just tell ur partner to wear condom,which will not affect,as far as the virigintiy is concerned, once the penis enters ur vagina u loose ur viriginity.

Answer 11

Mabey wait then,if your having a little doubt your not ready!mabey try taking a cold shower when your feeling like doing it,i know its hard I'm saving myself for marriage and all u hear in music and on tv is sex!it's evrywhere u can't excape it!or mabey maturbating?good luck