I have a boyfriend who I love and I would do anything for. But the only thing is I don't like that he calls me names like(***** and hoe) and disrespects me in ways I don't like. I spoke to him several times about how I feel and when he gets upset it is the same thing all over again. I treat him good and I am always there for him but it is never enough. I treat him the way I want to be treated just so he can know how I want to be treated it just does not work. He does not trust me and I always prove to him he can trust me. I also broke up with him just to see if he gets what I mean instead I went back to him. I don't know what to do anymore, I need advice. What should I do...?
2006-06-25 13:56:50 · 7 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dump him... no respect now means you'll never have it. you can do better
2006-06-25 13:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by kbodle13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he calls you names & disrespects you that would be a harassment. Remind him of that. Maybe something was wrong with his up bringing. Need to find out more as to why he likes to call you negative names. Does he feel good to call you names like that? Probably both of you need counseling in order for any future between the two of you.
Maybe start going to church or something in order to know that the words he is using are demeaning.
You keep going back to him but it will always be the same. You only can tolerate so much but then love rules everything. I know how that is. Maybe one day you will find someone opposite. You just need to keep looking out there especially if you want someone who will respect you. Good luck!
2006-06-25 21:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him the way he treats you. Call him names that he doesn't like and don't always be there for him. He is only doing that because you aren't really standing up for yourself. People can only treat you the way you allow them to. If you feel that you cannot leave him, then teach him.
2006-06-25 21:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by brishetta j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave this guy. He mistreats you, then tries to justify it, and there is no real reason that would make him treating you like this ok. Leave this bad relationship and move on to something better where you get the respect and love that you deserve. Do something for yourself, not anything for him.
2006-06-25 21:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Simplystunning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start treating him the way he treats you and then he will realise what he is doing. When he gets offended just laugh at him and tell him that thats the way he treats you . talk trash to him in front of his friends.
2006-06-25 21:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Dustin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he dosent respect you he dosent love u
2006-06-25 20:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
... hello? ... leave him and find a nice boy @ church ... hello? ...
2006-06-25 21:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by Santa's Helper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋