I just got engaged.I've been with my fiancee for one and and a half year.Im filipino and he's Irish and very close to his family...which i like.I clicked it with his parents but i still feel awkward around his brothers and sisters.I think im nice but whenever im out with my fiancee with them i feel out of place.Im trying though.
2006-06-25 13:38:15 · 5 answers · asked by mscofield 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Keep being with them. They will accept you eventually. I'm of Irish decent. I would
2006-06-25 13:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that may not your difficulty as you properly understand.. its his spouse's. You dont say if your brother feels comparable to his spouse does, yet he probable is extensive-unfold with that his spouse has this difficulty approximately relationships. some human beings merely don't comprehend what kin is. If she have been a accountable grownup she might comprehend which you presently have a kin and that's the place (rightfully so) you ought to spend a while. perchance one thank you to handle how she is coping with kin themes is to have her and your brother over to dinner one night. Have a classic dinner.. which contain the working after the toddler, the chaos that frequently ensues on the dinner table... merely enable her see that that's often a puzzling time.. and merely how exhausted it does circulate away you and your spouse on the top of the day. flippantly talk how harm and uncomfortable you're made to experience on the kin gatherings and which you do not intend to gentle her yet while she can't administration how she reacts that issues won't get better between her and the completed kin as shes accomplished this to others. She is performing like a 8 12 months old petulant little woman... and additionally you have accomplished not something yet be accountable on your loved ones. She might or will possibly not see it like this even nonetheless it must be suggested. As you suggested she does this to others interior the kin and has curiously accomplished it to friends .. as short lived because it would desire to be. disagreement is a few thing she shouldn't take care of properly.. yet on the different hand you do ought to talk along with her approximately her strikes and status interior the kin. with any luck your brother will see your area and he comprehend his spouse has an immaturity difficulty. he will ought to help her to overcome those thoughts of being the outsider... and performing out this way. She needs to confirm this could be a difficulty. i think something of the kin won't have confidence that "you're mad at her" as she has placed THEM in that concern as properly. I wish you the wonderful of success and candor is the wonderful path, for my section. :)
2016-12-08 12:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal to feel that way. Obviously you're making an effort to get them to like you, & you probably feel a lot of pressure & fear that they WON'T like you. Many times we try too hard to fit into a situation, but just be yourself & relax, & eventually you will develop a strong relationship with them & won't feel uncomfortable anymore =)
2006-06-25 13:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by lop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my fiance is still awkward and we have been together for 3 years but everything is fine
2006-06-25 13:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep being yourself and it will take sometime but you will start to feel comfortable around them
2006-06-25 13:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by BIG MOMMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋