I found out I was pregneat yesterday, but I don't know who the father is. I was at a party, and I think I was raped, but I can't remeber I was so drunk. I do remeber protesting though. All I can say is that I am never touching any drink ever again. What should I do.
2006-06-25 13:33:09 · 17 answers · asked by aimeemay 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
PLEASE tell somebody. If you can't remember, then you weren't capable at the time of saying yes or no. You need to go to the doctor for your health and the baby's, and please tell somebody because you shouldn't have to go through this alone. I hope this helps and I wish you well.
2006-06-25 13:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out if any one remembers who you were hanging out with or who may have been hitting up on you. I wouldn't tell them you found out your pregnant yet , you don't want someone to know the answer to your question and then lie to you, but go tell the guy that did this what's going on.Besides they may think it's your own fault . When you found out the possible men then let the police know you think you were raped by one of them and now your pregnant. You may want to get a lawyer to help with the rest. Once the baby comes you can get a DNA test done and they will have to have one also to determine who the father is.This is were your lawyer will be able to help you with what ever decision you make.
2006-06-25 20:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all come down and breathe, first Pray and u should go to planned parenthood or ur doctor. 2nd have a dear friend go with you 4 support boo. 3rd Its ok to drink, but drink in moderation and dont leave ur drink laying around. When u feel urself getting tipsy, stop get some water and walk outside for some air..Finally Just trust in God and everything will work out. Phil 4:13 Says I can do all things thru Christ which strengthens me....
2006-06-25 20:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by VivaciousandSexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, go to the doctor,
try to remember who was at the party and talk to your friends there to find out if they might know any possiblilities of who it could have been. If you get any leads, when you have the baby, have paternaty tests.
Then, QUIT DRINKING AND BE MORE RESPONSIBLE
this is the only way to be a suitable mother for the little one
2006-06-25 20:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by sandrarosette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you must feel really bad, personal opinions are always good but yours is the most important, having a baby is a blessing in truth in sooo many ways, but I have no idea how old are you and what is going on inside you, what ever you do remember life is precious and don't feel alone there is always some one to talk to.
2006-06-25 20:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh gosh, a typical modern 'party' scenario where morality is a thing of the past.Anyways go ask everyone who been there at that party what they seen if they seen anything,get your friends involved to help out,your parents,even the police.Ask the home owner who had that party what where when etc. Don't abort the life you have in you even if you can't have it for yourself,you may want to put it for adoption,please don't kill.
2006-06-25 20:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by I-C-U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, go to your local pregnancy center. They will help. Are you 100% certain you are pregnant? Try more than one test. Some of the pharmacy products don't work correctly.
I wish you the best! Hang in there!
2006-06-26 17:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who can talk to you about your options, for both the baby and your legal rights in this situation. You may also want to look for a counselor to help you through this difficult decision process. I wish you luck with whatever you do.
2006-06-25 20:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all how do you feel about it? would you like to have a child?Do you get excited of the idea? Depends on your age too.
I was young when I had my son(19)and I was very excited about it...but on the flip side of that it was also very hard raising him by my self.They depend sooo much on us.Well good luck with it all and go with what you feel in your heart.
2006-06-25 22:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by whitewillowsong101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abort it. Now. Don't screw up your life anymore. Get your tubes tied. Take birth control. Become a socially responsible individual for a change.
FETAL ALCOHOL SYNDROME. Look it up, stupid.
BIRTH control is SOOOOO EASY now.
2006-06-26 12:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋