This involves something I saw that I know would change a friends life if she knew.
2006-06-25 13:30:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
p.s. she is my friend and I would not benefit in any way...I am only thinking of her.
2006-06-25 14:02:17 · update #1
yes i do, but before i just go blurting it out, i take a minute & imagine myself in the other person's place: how would i want to hear this news if it were me? that's my barometer for how i will share the information.
never compromise your integrity when it comes to being honest - but don't lose touch with your humanity when you do. always show empathy - you never know when the shoe will be on the other foot.
2006-06-25 13:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by jakiterry 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Always tell the truth. I am divorced now that a friend of my ex told her a lie. Most important is that you know without a doubt that what you saw is truth. If you don't want to tell her say nothing at all. And if it involves someone supposedly cheating on another, confront the cheater.
2006-06-25 20:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by Newt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you saw her significent other cheating on her, if that is the case then yes tell her . The truth however can come back to bite you in the but if you are not careful. Usually you are damned if you do and if you dont but trust me you get in more trouble or feel worse later down the line if you do nothing.
2006-06-25 21:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by BRANDI R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the situation. Personally, I wouldn't unless asked for my "Opinion".
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Keep it to yourself.
2006-06-25 20:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by blkcherbicangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what it is and why you're telling the person. If it's not going to help the person in any way, and if you're only telling them to get it off your conscience, then no....keep it to yourself. If it's for the person's own good and they really need to know, in spite of it being hurtful, then tell them.
2006-06-25 20:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Schleppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if a little hurt now would save a lot later. If it would not benifit them to know in any way I would stay quiet.
2006-06-26 17:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by Tom H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we don't really know enough of the situation. If it's something that may affect your friend again, then tell. If it's in the past, let it stay buried.
2006-06-25 22:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you want to know? Would it change her life for the better or worse? Can you help her overcome it?
These are the questions you should ask yourself.
2006-06-25 20:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth hurts the most, but the truth is best let out.
2006-06-25 20:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its something that may hurt them now but will help them in the long run, and if this friend trusts u with anything, then u should spill it.
2006-06-25 20:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by cornholio9631 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋