Am I homosexual? I am attracted to people of the opposite sex only, but I'm "turned on" by both sexes.

Question

I just don't know if this is teenage hormones and emotions all crazy (I'm sixteen) or not. or maybe I'm just worrying!

Answer 1

sounds like your bi... dont be confused many people enter adulthood and still have no clue about their sexuality... Dont be ashamed to explore your sexuality....just remember be open and honest with your partners.... and always BE PROTECTED.....

Answer 2

Greetings,
I remember struggling with that one many moons ago. Yes as others have said you are of bisexual orientation. But don't worry about it. Many many people are. If you have mixed feelings, try to attend a gay support group that includes bisexuals, most of them do now. However keep in mind this is not a passing thing, it stays with you for life. So get comfortable and remember that the Goddess made you and me that way and millions of others so it must be good right? In other words, it is normal. Plus you have so many more potentials partners to pick from

Answer 3

No, not at all.
Many people are attracted to or intrigued by people of both sexes. Those people are bi-sexual or even just bi-curious. It's totally natural to be intrigued by any number of ideas, which is what it sounds like you are having trouble with. You have ideas about both sexes but only act things out with the opposite sex. What you do in the privacy of your own head is your business and I wouldn't worry about it.

Answer 4

you could be bi, but honestly, if you have not had these kinda of feelings for a long while, take a look at the marketing around you, ads, tv, movies, ect. girl on girl is hot, hell, girls are hot in general. distinguish your attraction from what you want to be, or how you want to be seen and who you are. It is totally normal for a girl to crush on another girl, but the reason at core is not as sexual as it is admiration. although with all the marketing shoved at you these days, it does muddy the line. you could ask yourself "do i want to be her, or be WITH her" (in a sexual way not an intimate best friend way) then give yourself plenty of time and space to figure out the answer. and remember, whatever the answer to that maybe it does not define you as a person. you should have a myriad of likes, dislikes, interests, hobbies, goals, aspirations, ect aside from who you are with,be that a girl or guy.

Answer 5

It is possible you're bisexual, that being attracted to both sexes. Right now, it's okay to be confused. You're still working on forming your adult identity and not everyone knows if they're gay/straight/bi right away (or at a young age.). Take your time and do whatever you feel most comfortable with.

Answer 6

Who says you can't like both and it makes you BISEXUAL not homosexual but either way it may be a phase, but it very well could be your way of life and nomatter what you choose it is your choice and it will be the right chioce for you. Never let any one take that away from you.

Answer 7

Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night. lol

Answer 8

You could be just experimenting...but there's a possibility that you are gay. Most people who are gay realize it when they are young and at the age when they think about dating.

Answer 9

every girls asks this question it's perfectly normal and if it wasn't would 100's of us all be asking the same question it's fine your not bi or gay unless you actually have sex with someone of the same sex

Answer 10

well the truth when i watch gurl on gurl videos they turn me on but maybe you go both ways or maybe were just freaky or inside maybe thats what you really want