My exhusband 3 yrs ago tryed to kill me by stabbing me with a knife. Luckly I grabbed the blade and not the handle so he couldn't stabb me but my hand had to have alot of stitches. He is a alcoholic and we were married 10 yrs and he was always very controlling and possesive of me.
2006-06-25 12:40:11 · 15 answers · asked by sunny_beaches_2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes he probably will if he tried to kill you. Restraining orders don't always work. The best thing to do is to move away from where he is and have nothing to do with his family or friends.
2006-06-25 12:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Blank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to an attorney, the police. Make it impossible to come into your area in which you live. No communication with you, no following or stalking you,
no means of anything connected with you. You must live by the rules as well. Never talk with him. Always have a cell phone with you in case you need to call the police. Never associate with his friends..this starts the he said..you said garbage,You do not want to get wrapped up in that. .Go to church talk with your pastor, the church and pastor will be of great support for you. Sure hope this helped some.
2006-06-25 13:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you had better be careful, i have dealt with this type of man and revenge is a big thing, I have an ex that locked up for abusing women and hell be home in 2008 when that time comes im definitely going to be cautious because you never know what to expect.
2006-06-25 12:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by imaganae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is going to try and find you he has low self esteem and by doing you wrong mad him feel better. If he knows where you are then its time to move and take the others advise and get some protection don't let him come back and pick up where he left off.
2006-06-25 12:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to the police before he gets out so you can relocate and possibly get into a victim/witness protection program. Don't wait until November to do it though.
2006-06-25 12:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably consider moving to a different area. If you dont have the resources any local domestic violence shelter in your area would have a program that helps victims relocate, and get started on a new life....Good Luck.
2006-06-25 13:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps maby the time that has gone by has done him good have you contacted him,maby you could writ ehim aletter or speak to him by phone to see how his attitude is if he sounds harmfull or disrespectfull i suggest you move away to ao aplace he wont know where you are and change your numbers to private numbers silent numbers and if he gets out and threatens you it would be very bad on his behalf
2006-06-25 13:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK change your ssn its easy MOVE TO ANOTHER area
OR MAYBEE even another state.when you have gotten to where
you want to be . send change of address to billing depts.
or pay all your final bills. before you leave. DONT WAIT
for him to get out . he may blame you for being there
and get out at noon and welllllll lets say NEWS at ELeven
DO NOT CHANGE YOU ADDRESS WITH THE POST OFFICE
OR HE WILL GET PUBLIC RECORDS OF WHERE YOU R
2006-06-25 12:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by Steven M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order.
Big dog
New boyfriend who can bench 300 lbs.
Try that, hon, and good luck.
2006-06-25 12:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mortis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for a restriction order.... or witness protection
2006-06-25 12:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by ma_isa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋