I am just a little curious as to why I am always standing around grinding my teeth, attractive women seem to have either no interest in me or perhaps they are shy just like me. I do not know I just want to have fun during my holidays not wasting my time like I am at the moment... RELATIONSHIPS!!!
2006-06-25 12:23:43 · 9 answers · asked by joshuaswifte 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take a good look at yourself: If you were a woman would you find the person in the mirror attractive? What are some of the things you do that seem like the woman shy away from? If you work on those alone-that would be an improvement. Next is the obvious-- how is your hygiene? Do you shower, shave and wear Cologne every day? Smelling clean, especially in the morning (you were supposed to have showered) is essential and have some cologne available for later too. Do not over do the cologne either-- you may attract the wrong gender! Also-- speaking of hygiene--or just speaking--brush you teeth and whiten them up!! A great smile is your first greeting card to anyone especially a woman. If you smoke--that may be a turn off right there. Non-smokers hate ashtray breaths!! Altoids work for a strong quick fix even if you do not smoke. Finally-- how is your wardrobe? Still wearing clothes from your garage or your grandparents? See what other people are wearing or at least up date a few shirts! Now you have a list to work on -- good luck with the women!!
2006-06-25 12:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by azguitar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, what you really need to do is gain some self confidence. Standing around and grinding your teeth will get you no where fast. Women aren't going to flock to you and beg you to go out with them. You need to interact, but most important you have to be yourself. Don't put on a show and pretend to be something your not, that will only turn them off. You will see, that with a little self confidence and motivation you can do it. Also, I don't know if your ugly, but it doesn't matter. Women are attracted to who you are and what you do. So go out there, be confident and start talking. Learn how to break the ice. Buy her a drink that is one way to break the ice, but don't forget to listen to her. Once you have done that the conversation comes naturally. Good Luck
2006-06-25 19:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by mcwhorsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult. They seem ot ignore me, too. I think they're either as shy as we are, or they don't like something about us, that they see. But they do want to be flirted with. Make yourself a profile on Love Happens.com, break the ice with a few matches, and each time you'lll be offered a free subscription to an adive news letter, that is written by a guy named Dave. I used to get it. Take it, if it's offered. I'm in the same boat, so to speak.
2006-06-25 19:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women very rarely approach men,sorry but if your interested in a girl then you need to build up your coarage and ask her out because she will ultimately say yes and go out with you,we have all missed out on mnay potential fun dates because we are to shy and the guy has been to shy to ask us out,its the way it is some have more go in them than others
2006-06-25 19:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a (girl) friend to help you!
It works everytime... point out the girl you want to meet.
Have her make friends with her in the bathroom, where girls mingle or whatever.
Then... Have have you met my friend..bla bla bla he's awsome.
She has to pump you up as fantastic and you have to be fantastic.
Then when you meet it's all over but the singin.
If you are ugly you may have to pay your friend LOL
P.S. sometimes it's recomended to play hard to get...if you chase something it will run away.
(But you have to know when to chase also)
(If she's Psycho no when to run)
2006-06-25 19:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are about 12 years old..
If I could not find a girl to go out with me, I think that I would go to the Mall and just walk around..
DO NOT STARE ..
2006-06-25 19:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't go the women they are not going to come to you so you need to get off the wall and start approaching people.
2006-06-25 19:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by dangerously in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm i dont know its the same with me people always say how pretty i am yet the guys i like barely ever ask me out only the guys i dont like do!
2006-06-25 19:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
2006-06-25 19:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by MISS.MEMPHIS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋