2006-06-25 12:14:18 · 19 answers · asked by classy chic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is something I participated in when I was much younger though as I grew older I learned to value a relationship more. Sexuality is something I would only want to express with a person that I love and am committed to. I have learned that to value myself is to value enough to not want to share that part of me with just anyone or multiple partners. It is so much more special when reserved for just your significant other. That's my take on it...
2006-06-25 12:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Shoshana S 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Every person is going to have their own answer for this. Some people will say it's the best thing since sliced bread, others will call you a dirty hoar for just thinking about it.
We have been swinging for years. Do we like it? Oh YEA!!! Has there been problems? Some, but nothing we couldn't get through together. Is it for everyone? No. But, for those people who have very strong relationships and are looking to take sex to a higher level, it could be worth looking into.
If you're thinking of doing it and looking for ways to get into it, do your homework before you get involved. Understand the rules and talk extensively about what could happen. Just remember to have an open mind and enjoy what is going on around you.
And you never know who could be swingers...you just never know.................
2006-06-26 18:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience...If you are going to experience the swinging lifestyle with a loved one you are likely going to experience some serious relationship problems(jealousy, insecurity). However, if you are single then your first time will be awkward unless you are with a group of people you trust and respect. Ive experienced both sides of this issue...as a single man and with a partner. It can be fun, but it can also cause problems. It is really a matter of how confident you are in your sexuality and what turns you on.
2006-06-25 19:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by 100% Chance of Pain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I prefer the porch swing
2006-06-25 19:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by old man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just can't get into it. I think that in the end you will find hurt feelings. It is just to easy for people to catch feelings.
You just can't have sex with mutiple people forever.
2006-06-25 19:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and I would kill my husband if he suggested such. I think if you are in a relationship then you don't need to be with others. I feel like it is disrespectful to you and your lover.
2006-06-25 20:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by tjamesmomof4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the swings, and the slides, too.
2006-06-25 19:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what ever u want to do as long as no one gets hurt, this so called free country we live in will someday take that away from us also, enjoy ur self and have fun
2006-06-25 19:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a swinger with my wife... I found out she isn't good in bed. Almost all of the women I was with was way better at sex. Don't do it!!!!
2006-06-25 20:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by Mindlessfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately NOT classy
2006-06-25 19:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋