2006-06-25 11:57:09 · 17 answers · asked by stacey c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Remind yourself that the apple never falls far from the tree. Have you ever wondered what they think of you? Kids aren't bad, but they can be out of control. I think you and your husband need counseling as soon as possible. Be sure to include the kids when it comes to discussing family harmony. It might be helpful for you to take a vacation away from the family...a weekend at a local hotel might make them realize what they are doing to your sanity.
2006-06-25 12:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communication and being consitent is the key! If you and your husband argue alot this could be a reason the kids are acting out. I am in a womans group and we study books about raising kids. Try and get your husband to read "The difference a dad makes". This is a great book that helps dads realize how important what they do and say is to their kids. GREAT BOOK! Try not to argue infront of the kids and when you make boundries for them STICK TO THEM.
Hope that helps. :)
2006-06-25 12:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by tairraphillips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the husband and do not argue in front of the kids. if they are bad maybe its because of the arguing. set some new rules with the family and whenever the kids argue tell them there are going to be consequences. you husband has to deal with you and set consequences for him also.
2006-06-25 12:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by cmac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see the kids first if they were that bad and didnt like rules. told you no all the time..id be taking stuff from there room.(ps2 etc) grounding them from mates. not letting them out. bed at a cirtain time and if none of this didnt work then i would call in a social worker to help (not to take them) but just to give you some mental support..and as for the husband id kick his *** hard tell him unless he compramises with you, youd kick him out. stop cooking for him. stop doing his washing. make him do it and show him how hard this is. but knowing this predicument it seems the kids have learnt some tips from there dad. and dad dont disipline them. are you left with every thing here...maybe you are..get booked up at a spa for a few days leave the house and him and see how he copes and i bet he wont..
2006-06-25 12:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry the kids to boot camp or to the police station so they could see what happens to bad kids, and tell your husband stop being a pu**y and grow some balls. Cause you are already having hell with the kids and you dont need sh*t from him.
2006-06-25 12:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd run away lol I'm jokin but seriously it sounds like you need a vacation every women deserves that..Also you and your husband can try talking to your pastor or marriage counselor..or talk to him find out whats bothering him hope things get better for you
2006-06-25 12:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take them to a park and leave them all there (including hubby) then you go and get your back cracked by a chiropractor, get you a full body massage, with facial,nails,& toes. Then if you feel like going back to get them after your day of pampering then go back and try to deal with it for a few months and start the cycle all over again.
2006-06-25 12:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by dangerously in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids learn by example, if they see it happening with no consequences whether at home shool park they will think its ok, just have to keep battling on dont give up on the kids, as for the man get rid you deserve better if he cant set an example to the kids
2006-06-27 06:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a family of 5.. we were all discipline differently. okay.. pOLYS KIDS are bad. i tell ya. we got sum whoopings that unimaginative. being whooped with da belt, broom, wooden spoon, and slippahs. you think thats harsh. but my folks are da type that gave you warning after warning.. until they.. well.. you knew what is coming. as for my younger siblings.. they got time out, sit in da corner. but eventually came all back to whoopings.. yelling and screaming helps contain sum children.. whoopings help deals with others. its da way you handle it. its not child abuse. only if you take it to the extreme. well, i hope this help.
2006-06-25 12:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by isLand Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, I would divorce my husband and give him custody of the bad kids and start my life over completely.....)(
2006-06-25 12:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by MissKathleen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋