He is the typical pilot personality. Self-centered, aloof, and always right. He constantly finds fault in me, never is complimentary.
He is a great dad, but an awful husband. I have two great kids: 9 & 5. Any pilot wives who read this may also have insight.....
2006-06-25 11:52:34 · 7 answers · asked by homegirl24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all he needs to know how he makes you feel...He also at the same time needs to understand you are who you are and have been the whole time he has known you...If he will change and give you the respect you deserve and make you happy then stay with him....If he does not want to hear what you have to say and don't care then go through with a divorce..
Life is too short be happy...
2006-06-25 12:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Father was a pilot and nothing like you described. The only bad thing was that he was gone a lot. On the other hand, when he got home, he was home for a while. Sorry, I can't help you with this one. Hope it works out for you.
2006-06-25 19:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by ur_ave_joe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its about time you told him how you feel and how it is affecting your relationship. you cant put it down to his career its just him. at the end of the day there is only one judge to your decision everyone and anyone can give you all the answers in the world weather you take it or not is another thing as we dont have to live with him you need to be happy yes but its up to you to make that decision good luck???
2006-06-25 19:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't get divorced without being able to tell your kids "I did everything I could to save this marriage" -- because if you do get divorced, it's gonna completely shatter their world, even if it's a "good" divorce.
Find a good marriage counselor and give it a year or two. Go, even if he refuses to -- he will eventually go with you, because he'll want to tell his side of the story to the counselor.
2006-06-25 19:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by wvbluebell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no such typical pilot personality and I know first hand. Sorry, but it is not the pilot in him that makes him insensitive to you.
2006-06-25 19:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by browneyedgirl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he has to be right, he has been trained to be right
those that don't are us ally killed in pilot error crashes
a for the compliment issue that should not be a deal breaker
but he may need training of a another sort ( counseling )
2006-06-25 18:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes men like that are to in control of there own feelings to care about anyones elses you can let it go on as long as you like but he wont change
2006-06-25 19:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋