I dont now why that has been on my mind latley but it has. I am constantly thinking about this older guy at work, fantasizing about being raped by him. Anyone else go through this?
2006-06-25 11:45:56 · 12 answers · asked by Peter W 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have seen personal ads where both straight and gay people want to engage in this rape fantasy.
Personally, I simply don't understand it.
2006-06-25 11:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I never fantasize about being raped. I was raped by a man when I was 18. It is not a sexy memory.
I do, however, enjoy being dominated a little bit. It's a hot thought to let my boyfriend be in charge. Tell me what to do. If, at any point, I feel like I don't have a choice, though, I would lose sexual interest.
Rape is a very violent act. I wonder how anybody could find that sexually stimulating.
2006-06-25 11:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dustin Lochart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are fantasizing about being raped by a guy, that means that you want to have sex with him, right? But the raping means to having sex with someone against their will. So you're not fantasizing about being raped by him; you're fantasizing about having sex with him. And a lot of people fantasize about that. So, no, there is nothing wrong with you.
P.S. Some of the people who answered here were a little biased. They think that homosexuality is a sickness, or homosexuals have some mental problem. This has been scientifically proven to be false. So just ignore them.
2006-06-25 11:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by Aint No Bugs On Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with this providing you can draw a distinction between fantasy and reality. Remember, in a fantasy, the other person is merely a character and you have total control over everything. If the person did something you don't like, then you can switch off the fantasy. In real life, the other person or scenario cannot be switched off like a bad computer game.
Even though you fantasise about being raped, you probably fantasise about being raped in a specific manner. If you were truly raped, then the real life scenario may turn out different to your fantasy.
2006-06-25 19:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost this is completley normal- for everyone. What? Yep! You got it! Gays, Straights, bis, etc. There are people in every group that fantasize about being raped by someone. And it doesnt have to be the etreme form of rape, like being tied and pushed around and thrown on the bed, dirty language, etc. It can be having someone walk up behind you and grab your hands in a gentle manner and "forcing" you to have sex(role playing). Some people really get into the rough part of it and acutally being raped or raping, even though it is truly consentual.
2006-06-25 11:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever wonder if people tell the truth when they talk to you? Sounds like you are fantasizing about the guy and the rape just absolves you of any guilt.
2006-06-25 11:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by lavenderbluememories 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some people do - both homosexuals and heterosexuals. Maragaret Atwood wrote a good short story about that, wondering if people ever had rape fantasies. It's short and not dirty or explicit. You might appreciate reading it. Here's a link that explains it a bit, if you'd like (http://mchip00.nyu.edu/lit-med/lit-med-db/webdocs/webdescrips/atwood1191-des-.html ). The actual text is copyrighted, I'm sure, but you can find it without a problem at your local library.
2006-06-25 12:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by Caritas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had similar fantasies, if you want the truth. And yeah, I feel kinda bad about it, like I know it's sick but it's still kinda hot.
And to answer the second (though not stated)part of your question, yes I WAS sexually molested as a child. Coincidence? I don't know.
2006-06-25 11:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
um, being raped is not something most people fantasize about
2006-06-25 12:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by cuddlebuddy_wanted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. A bit of an extreme fantasy but it is definitely in my repertoire.
2006-06-25 11:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋