Almost 5 months ago I left my ex of a 1yr. and 4 months, and I have no regrets whatsoever. However, four months later I met his close friend(which at the time I didn't know). We started talking, started a friendship, and eventually slept 2gether. A week later I told my ex because I felt like I had disrespected his friendship. Plus, I also had 2 ask myself this question, " If my close friend slept with my ex, would I want 2 know? By the way, my ex's friend and I still talk 2 eachother and have continued 2 remain friends. He said that we should just stick with the friendship and nothing more. 3 weeks later we slept 2gether again.What should I do?
2006-06-25 11:40:31 · 18 answers · asked by sexylips 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Look, it sound slike there might be something good between you too. Go ahead and pursue a friendship, and intimate relationship if that is where it keeps going. Maybe you and this friend have a lot more in common than you and your ex did.
Just be aware that it may be the end of the friendship between the two of them.
Do what seems right to you.
2006-07-05 11:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well apparently your ex's friend likes you more then he is willing to admit. There must be some chemistry there so I would just go with it and see where it leads.
As most everyone on here said, keep your private life to yourself. Your ex has moved on and so should you. Its great that you remained friends, but doesn't mean he needs to know every move you make with someone.
I don't know why you feel you have disrespected his friendship. Does he tell you when he has been with a woman? You didn't say what his reaction was when you told him about you and his friend and if he remained friends with him.
I would keep my relationships to myself, still remain friends with your ex. You are not betraying anyone.
2006-07-07 22:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by allyp51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens between you and a friend is none of your ex's business. Like the other person said, never kiss and tell. If you like the guy, then go with him. Your ex is just that....and ex. Let him go his way, and you go yours. Don't even let it bother you. Have a good day..........
2006-06-25 18:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your really concerned about your ex's feelings and friendship, stop sleeping with his friend. If he says, "Lets be friends and nothing else", then make him stick to it. Unless you really like sleeping with him and don't care about your ex, then go for it girl!
2006-07-08 10:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by prncssbubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you tell him that you slept with his friend? You may be friends with you ex, but he had no need to be advised of your sleeping arrangements. Keep your sex life to your self, and stop sleeping with your ex, your relationship with him is a dead end. You need to start respecting yourself.
2006-07-05 21:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by riddletricia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought about taking up fishing of another recreation for better results or perhaps just get a life...geez
2006-07-08 06:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably stop having sex until you're mature enough to handle the complex situations it inevitably brings about, and make more responsible choices.
2006-07-08 02:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) do you like this guy if so then it is not disreastpect you've already broken up and he is no longer in your life.2)If you feel so uncomfortable then tell your ex and his freind maybe they'll tell you something but it is all up to you.
2006-07-09 18:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by Shadows mommie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is using you for sex. Get rid of them both and move on. Choose new friends and new lovers.
2006-07-08 01:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by GOUTVOLS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life you are sleeping with your ex's friend then that is disrespect and you r actin desperate, honey get a life!!
2006-07-09 17:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋